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Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
(May 20, 2018 at 9:52 pm)mh.brewer Wrote:
(May 19, 2018 at 2:56 pm)The Industrial Atheist Wrote: There's nothing more depressing for me than trying to obtain a relationship through online dating sites.

There's nothing more humiliating than having to fill in "I prefer not to say" next to: Do you have a car?
or having to try to use a clever quip instead of just leaving the employment line blank.

When I tried this before it was like every week I got no response I felt like an even bigger fool, and month by month....I can only take so much of that before I call it quits.

But I have nothing in my life where I'm around women my age in a natural situation either. Even if I did, it would eventually become the same kind of shit, it would just take longer.

It may not be my fault I suck ass. But that doesn't really matter at all. Sometimes, that's what really hurts. I can't say, hey I still experience psychosis probably %30 of the time, and active psychosis is more disabling than quadriplegia. It'd be more likely they'd run screaming.

I can't say, even considering I could work like that, I have degenerative disc disease, and frequent kidney stones and sinus infections. I want to try to work but what happens if things get as bad as they sometimes get already? To the point I'm so sick I barely feel well enough to carry on intelligent conversation let alone do a job. Even a non physical one.

None of that would help my case even one bit.

Fuck my life.

Fuck my life.

When it comes right down to it what the hell is natural? 

Got any support groups in the area to hang with? "How you doin" might go along way there.
I do go to a support group. I have one friend, I suppose my only RL friend, but no women in it within ten years of my age.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
(May 20, 2018 at 10:13 pm)The Industrial Atheist Wrote:
(May 20, 2018 at 9:52 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: When it comes right down to it what the hell is natural? 

Got any support groups in the area to hang with? "How you doin" might go along way there.
I do go to a support group. I have one friend, I suppose my only RL friend, but no women in it within ten years of my age.

So........... grab yourself a cougar.
I don't have an anger problem, I have an idiot problem.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
(May 20, 2018 at 10:22 pm)mh.brewer Wrote:
(May 20, 2018 at 10:13 pm)The Industrial Atheist Wrote: I do go to a support group. I have one friend, I suppose my only RL friend, but no women in it within ten years of my age.

So........... grab yourself a cougar.

Well I'm pretty sure they're in their 60's, that's too much lol. There are very nice looking ladies in the waiting room, but in order for them to hear me, I have to sit next to them. No, I'm not afraid of cooties, but I feel weird doing that. I wouldn't have to do that outside where people wait for their rides I suppose.....
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
(May 20, 2018 at 10:29 pm)The Industrial Atheist Wrote:
(May 20, 2018 at 10:22 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: So........... grab yourself a cougar.

Well I'm pretty sure they're in their 60's, that's too much lol. There are very nice looking ladies in the waiting room, but in order for them to hear me, I have to sit next to them. No, I'm not afraid of cooties, but I feel weird doing that. I wouldn't have to do that outside where people wait for their rides I suppose.....

Old can be very very grateful. (nudge nudge)

If you sit next to them you understand that you have to open your mouth.
I don't have an anger problem, I have an idiot problem.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
(May 20, 2018 at 10:32 pm)mh.brewer Wrote:
(May 20, 2018 at 10:29 pm)The Industrial Atheist Wrote: Well I'm pretty sure they're in their 60's, that's too much lol. There are very nice looking ladies in the waiting room, but in order for them to hear me, I have to sit next to them. No, I'm not afraid of cooties, but I feel weird doing that. I wouldn't have to do that outside where people wait for their rides I suppose.....

Old can be very very grateful. (nudge nudge)

If you sit next to them you understand that you have to open your mouth.

Haha are you trying to live vicariously though me? The wife would give you the death chop? lol

Who knows maybe  I will do it. The sitting and talking thing not the cougar thing.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
(May 20, 2018 at 10:32 pm)mh.brewer Wrote:
(May 20, 2018 at 10:29 pm)The Industrial Atheist Wrote: Well I'm pretty sure they're in their 60's, that's too much lol. There are very nice looking ladies in the waiting room, but in order for them to hear me, I have to sit next to them. No, I'm not afraid of cooties, but I feel weird doing that. I wouldn't have to do that outside where people wait for their rides I suppose.....

Old can be very very grateful. (nudge nudge)

If you sit next to them you understand that you have to open your mouth.

For a woman to be considered a "cougar" she need only be 10 years older than the age of the male seeking one out. 

I believe what you are telling him to look for is a Sugar Mama. A rich older lady looking to have fun with a younger man, strings attached, of course.

Incidentally, the youngest guy I ever dated was 15 years younger than me. I was a cougar, but I'll never be someone's sugar mama. Fuck that shit. I need me a sugar daddy Big Grin
Disclaimer: I am only responsible for what I say, not what you choose to understand. 
(November 14, 2018 at 8:57 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: Have a good day at work.  If we ever meet in a professional setting, let me answer your question now.  Yes, I DO want fries with that.
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Can I just say: and I'm just being honest.

"and I'm just being honest"
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Can I just say something, and I'm just being honest: "something."
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
CIJS

Some people never get tired of recycling quotes from years ago. Over and over and over and over again.
Disclaimer: I am only responsible for what I say, not what you choose to understand. 
(November 14, 2018 at 8:57 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: Have a good day at work.  If we ever meet in a professional setting, let me answer your question now.  Yes, I DO want fries with that.
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RE: Can I just say, and I'm just being honest...
(May 21, 2018 at 9:18 pm)Joods Wrote: CIJS

Some people never get tired of recycling quotes from years ago. Over and over and over and over again.

wachewtalkinboutwillis?
I don't have an anger problem, I have an idiot problem.
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