I met a histrionic girl.

[The_Flying_Skeptic]

I met a girl that says she's 'histrionic' and mildly narcissistic. I think when people believe they are histrionic and know the properties of histrionic personality disorder, whether or not they were professionally diagnosed is somewhat irrelevant since they will mirror those signs and self-condition to that disorder (which may be considered a disorder on its own). She boasts her disorder and her neediness (sucks); she's smart and she can recite Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (omFSM); hence she is hot.

I like her a lot personality-wise (wait that doesn't make sense since I'm confused about major flaw in her personality. i mean that i enjoy our commonalities) and i am physically attracted to her, but I know that she's using me. I've only known her for a couple of days and she's 'all over me': kissing me and cuddling me. I like cuddling and kissing but sometimes I feel that I don't matter to her: I feel all that matters is that i'm cute to her and willing to be a door mat.

She does make a good point that I will be leaving to the Air Force soon, and she will be leaving for college soon. She told me that if I don't want to get hurt or keep getting hurt, I may leave. If I decide to stay, she says "You're welcome to join the roller coaster ride." She says that at the very least after our time together, she'll be an awesome pen pal. I guess being with her is worth being on a roller coaster ride of emotions. what do you think of me sitchu-wah-ation?

[Minimalist]

Steamer-trunk sized emotional baggage.

She will only get worse.

[LastPoet]

Yeah, stay frosty, or you will get burned. If you keep your hopes down you should not get burned by such a relationship. Chances are that she only wants you to show her friends, not sure if I would put up to that

[Paul the Human]

I say, since she has already made it clear that it will not lead to anything serious, just go ahead and enjoy the ride! You already know there will be no commitments, so it can't hurt you when one doesn't develop. Believe me, once you are in the Air Force, you will not want to be 'tied down' to anyone back home. I tell you this from experience.

[Skeptisma]

Do it/her, learn your lesson and stay away from women that boast their disorders in the future. It sounds to me like she's using her disorder as an excuse to treat you like garbage and then when you feel angry or hurt she can simply say, "I told you so." As fun as it might be, letting your dick lead you around can get you into an awful mess - so be careful.

[The_Flying_Skeptic]

Do it/her, learn your lesson and stay away from women that boast their disorders in the future. It sounds to me like she's using her disorder as an excuse to treat you like garbage and then when you feel angry or hurt she can simply say, "I told you so." As fun as it might be, letting your dick lead you around can get you into an awful mess - so be careful.

I hope she doesn't start treating me like garbage. She's sweet to me now. We watched a movie last night cuddling, and then had a conversation about the infinite improbability drive. She's nice to be with but she is 'using me' and her using me wouldn't hurt as much if I didn't actually like her.

[Skeptisma]

Do it/her, learn your lesson and stay away from women that boast their disorders in the future. It sounds to me like she's using her disorder as an excuse to treat you like garbage and then when you feel angry or hurt she can simply say, "I told you so." As fun as it might be, letting your dick lead you around can get you into an awful mess - so be careful.

I hope she doesn't start treating me like garbage. She's sweet to me now. We watched a movie last night cuddling, and then had a conversation about the infinite improbability drive. She's nice to be with but she is 'using me' and her using me wouldn't hurt as much if I didn't actually like her.

Regardless if she's not quite treating you like 'garbage' yet, she certainly is mistreating you. I don't understand what you're having trouble with here. Obviously you aren't okay with just being used or you wouldn't be concerned or hurt - you know the right answer here, whether or not you act on it is up to you. But, like I said, I foresee this turning into an "I told you so" moment.

[Scented Nectar]

Guard your emotions a bit. People with those two disorders can turn on you like sour milk. That's not to say you won't have fun before that, or even that it will happen for sure, but you might want to keep from doing the falling in love extreme until you know her extremes.

[Cego_Colher]

if you like her you probably will get hurt with her. If you want to be with her be very careful, because if you get too attached she could just get you to do whatever she wants and you probably wouldn't even realize it was a problem till it's over. or you could realize it is a problem, stay with her anyway and be miserable the entire time. of course there is always a chance that it won't be as bad as it could be.

[Dotard]

You found her, now fuck her and forget her.

It's that easy.