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RE: Do you consider yourself to be a nice person?
September 4, 2016 at 4:50 pm
(September 4, 2016 at 4:39 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: (September 4, 2016 at 4:25 pm)Stimbo Wrote: Yes - because everybody who uses the word "nice" is living in the 14th century and means it in exactly that context.
Yes, because that's what he meant to say with that bit of interesting trivia. 
Fair enough.
Good thing I'm nice.
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RE: Do you consider yourself to be a nice person?
September 4, 2016 at 4:52 pm
I'm definitely not nice once someone proves to be a massive shitstain. That's relevant today yet again.
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RE: Do you consider yourself to be a nice person?
September 4, 2016 at 5:40 pm
Of course I'm nice. I'm so in touch with my niceness, I've had to beat the snot out of several people who insisted I wasn't a nice person.
Seriously, though, I do think I come off as particularly not all that nice, since I have a tendency to confront people who are rude in public. But the confrontations are not always physical (the last one that got physical landed me in court), more often they take the form of my saying something like, 'If you don't belt up this very minute, I'll have you escorted out.'
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RE: Do you consider yourself to be a nice person?
September 4, 2016 at 5:49 pm
Nice is my default, but doormat isn't. Most of the time I'm nice; sometimes my biggest personal failing, though, is being an asshole.
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RE: Do you consider yourself to be a nice person?
September 4, 2016 at 6:16 pm
In general, yes, because I don't like anger and always try to step back from it which makes me very forgiving... but at the same time I have no time for games or gameplayers any more. In the past I was easily manipulated but now whenever I see games I just disengage, completely. So in the past I'd have done a lot to 'fit in' but now I've seen enough loneliness and rejection in my life to be accustomed to it and comfortable with it... so that power over me is gone... I will not be controlled because I am willing and able to step outside an existing social order/dynamic. For instance, when I was at school, and after I came out, I lost all my friends and ended up completely ostracised, spending my breaks and lunchtimes alone in a dark classroom with nothing but a walkman for company, actually looking forward to the lessons. At the time that was hell, but now I've matured enough to actually be perfectly comfortable with that arrangement.
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RE: Do you consider yourself to be a nice person?
September 4, 2016 at 6:19 pm
(September 4, 2016 at 4:44 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: Ham just removed a kudos making me think I got a bunch of new ones instead. That's not nice, that's just mean.
Golly - good thing it wasn't a rep point. Just imagine - someone taking back a rep they gave you with no explanation. That would be just awful.
Fortunately, that never happens at AF.
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