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Ask a black girl on Social sercurity and welfare.
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RE: Ask a black girl on Social sercurity and welfare.
(September 23, 2016 at 3:07 am)paulpablo Wrote: Well I'm guessing overall then you'd say the combined ebt, the money and housing and medical care it all is enough to live off?

How is your dad now?

Did you have anxiety attacks before the break in?

Yeah I had anxiety before the break in. And no not really the money isn't enough. 600$ for a one bedroom and then I have 153 for all my necessities. That includes cane replacements, household cleaners, toiletries, clothes, transportation. Even when I had my my own place my parents still had to help me. And that's not fair to me or them.
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RE: Ask a black girl on Social sercurity and welfare.
(September 23, 2016 at 2:03 am)Bella Morte Wrote: Is the money you receive each month enough to live on?

Ha!  You can't even get that with a job in the US.  We're not a bunch of nanny state coddlers, you don't think we're giving away what we won't even pay someone, do you?  

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EBT (foodstamps) is a subsidy for agriculture, not welfare for the poor, btw. If you're not from the US, you probably don't know this (most americans don;t either), but our welfare program is on our Farm Bill.
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RE: Ask a black girl on Social sercurity and welfare.
(September 23, 2016 at 3:13 am)BrokenQuill92 Wrote:
(September 23, 2016 at 3:07 am)paulpablo Wrote: Well I'm guessing overall then you'd say the combined ebt, the money and housing and medical care it all is enough to live off?

How is your dad now?

Did you have anxiety attacks before the break in?

Yeah I had anxiety before the break in. And no not really the money isn't enough. 600$ for a one bedroom and then I have 153 for all my necessities. That includes cane replacements, household cleaners, toiletries, clothes, transportation. Even when I had my my own place my parents still had to help me. And that's not fair to me or them.

Youre paying 600 for a one bedroom, meaning giving your parents the rent money?


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RE: Ask a black girl on Social sercurity and welfare.
(September 23, 2016 at 3:19 am)paulpablo Wrote:
(September 23, 2016 at 3:13 am)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: Yeah I had anxiety before the break in. And no not really the money isn't enough. 600$ for a one bedroom and then I have 153 for all my necessities. That includes cane replacements, household cleaners, toiletries, clothes, transportation. Even when I had my my own place my parents still had to help me. And that's not fair to me or them.

Youre paying 600 for a one bedroom, meaning giving your parents the rent money?

No when I had my own place I did. Now I'm paying 350 half of the rent with my parents so I can save up for a new apartment. Right now daddy still needs help, and mom still doesn't have a stable job.
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RE: Ask a black girl on Social sercurity and welfare.
(September 23, 2016 at 3:27 am)BrokenQuill92 Wrote:
(September 23, 2016 at 3:19 am)paulpablo Wrote: Youre paying 600 for a one bedroom, meaning giving your parents the rent money?

No when I had my own place I did. Now I'm paying 350 half of the rent with my parents so I can save up for a new apartment. Right now daddy still needs help, and mom still doesn't have a stable job.

Ok sorry for the constant housing questions but you talked about a housing waiting list that's 5 years wait? Are you on this list and how long have you been waiting?
Once the wait is over then you get free housing?
I might open my own thread at some point so you can get your own back and interrogate me about my life.
Also I remember you mentioning a boyfriend, how does he fit into all this?
Does he want to move in with you at some stage?


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Impersonation is treason.





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RE: Ask a black girl on Social sercurity and welfare.
(September 23, 2016 at 3:33 am)paulpablo Wrote:
(September 23, 2016 at 3:27 am)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: No when I had my own place I did. Now I'm paying 350 half of the rent with my parents so I can save up for a new apartment. Right now daddy still needs help, and mom still doesn't have a stable job.

Ok sorry for the constant housing questions but you talked about a housing waiting list that's 5 years wait? Are you on this list and how long have you been waiting?
Once the wait is over then you get free housing?
I might open my own thread at some point so you can get your own back and interrogate me about my life.
Also I remember you mentioning a boyfriend, how does he fit into all this?
Does he want to move in with you at some stage?

Since I just moved back home I've only been on the list a few months. And me and Joseph broke up before I moved, he wanted to get back together and for me to come back to Tennessee but I think I need some time to myself. Not that we'll never get back together, but neither of us are in a stable place for a realationship.
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#17
RE: Ask a black girl on Social sercurity and welfare.
Besides my parents HATE him
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#18
RE: Ask a black girl on Social sercurity and welfare.
(September 23, 2016 at 3:33 am)paulpablo Wrote:
(September 23, 2016 at 3:27 am)BrokenQuill92 Wrote: No when I had my own place I did. Now I'm paying 350 half of the rent with my parents so I can save up for a new apartment. Right now daddy still needs help, and mom still doesn't have a stable job.

Ok sorry for the constant housing questions but you talked about a housing waiting list that's 5 years wait? Are you on this list and how long have you been waiting?
Once the wait is over then you get free housing?
I might open my own thread at some point so you can get your own back and interrogate me about my life.
Also I remember you mentioning a boyfriend, how does he fit into all this?
Does he want to move in with you at some stage?

Ps: no the housing isn't free. Just reduced pricing
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RE: Ask a black girl on Social sercurity and welfare.
How do you budget? What do you do to figure out how to allocate your income?

How does budgeting make you feel? Neutral? Anxious? Depressed? Optimistic?
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RE: Ask a black girl on Social sercurity and welfare.
(September 23, 2016 at 9:40 pm)mihoda Wrote: How do you budget? What do you do to figure out how to allocate your income?

How does budgeting make you feel? Neutral? Anxious? Depressed? Optimistic?
Budgeting is more depressing and frustrating. I always pay rent first. Then I transportation. Things I can't afford to go out for I don't or I try to get things cheaper online. I'm working on not leaning on my parents for transportation. That's not fair to them. I try to save maybe 20$ aside a month but it's usually every other month. So toiletries, cleaners, and other household cleaners i buy in bulk.
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