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RE: What's your most favorite thing about being Single/Married?
January 30, 2017 at 4:10 pm
(January 30, 2017 at 3:47 pm)pool the great Wrote:
(January 30, 2017 at 2:26 pm)Astreja Wrote: Having a partner who wants you to do everything with them and does an eye-roll or otherwise sabotages things that you want to do. Good. Fucking. Riddance.
hahah ikr! Clingy af, it's so annoying but it's a kind of extension of their love so i guess it could be excused
Clingy, nothing! It was manipulative and domineering and psychologically abusive, and prevented me from having a life of my own. I will never again make that mistake.
Dumping Whatsisname ranks as the second-best thing I ever did. (Taking music lessons is at #1.)
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RE: What's your most favorite thing about being Single/Married?
January 30, 2017 at 4:41 pm
(January 30, 2017 at 3:13 pm)Orochi Wrote: Best thing about my relationship ?
Frequent three ways
MMF or FFM?
I'd enjoy either a lot.
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RE: What's your most favorite thing about being Single/Married?
January 30, 2017 at 4:42 pm
(January 30, 2017 at 4:41 pm)Alasdair Ham Wrote: (January 30, 2017 at 3:13 pm)Orochi Wrote: Best thing about my relationship ?
Frequent three ways
MMF or FFM?
I'd enjoy either a lot.
2 bi girls + 1 me
Seek strength, not to be greater than my brother, but to fight my greatest enemy -- myself.
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RE: What's your most favorite thing about being Single/Married?
January 30, 2017 at 4:43 pm
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(January 30, 2017 at 3:27 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: (January 30, 2017 at 3:09 pm)Alasdair Ham Wrote: Are you sure he's pooping? 
Haha. Well he always takes one of his stupid star wars novels in there with him (whichever one he's on), or the news paper. So unless he has a fetish (apart from the one I already know about), he's pooping. Oh yeah, that and the smell.
As long as his fetish isn't the pooping.
I strongly suspect he has a secret thing for Chewbacca. It just stands to reason.
(January 30, 2017 at 4:42 pm)Orochi Wrote: (January 30, 2017 at 4:41 pm)Alasdair Ham Wrote: MMF or FFM?
I'd enjoy either a lot.
2 bi girls + 1 me
Nice. I would say more but not outside A69.
(January 30, 2017 at 4:10 pm)Astreja Wrote: (January 30, 2017 at 3:47 pm)pool the great Wrote:
hahah ikr! Clingy af, it's so annoying but it's a kind of extension of their love so i guess it could be excused
Clingy, nothing! It was manipulative and domineering and psychologically abusive, and prevented me from having a life of my own. I will never again make that mistake.
Dumping Whatsisname ranks as the second-best thing I ever did. (Taking music lessons is at #1.)
I hate psychological abuse, it's disgusting. Glad you're out of there.
I really like clingy though 
As for manipulative and domineering.... That depends entirely on the context and how much fun I'm having when they treat me that way
As long as I'm in control most of the time 
Damn why do I have to make everything about sex. Ignore me. Or... don't. Either is good
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RE: What's your most favorite thing about being Single/Married?
January 30, 2017 at 5:23 pm
*Married
Dual income: Oh, yes...very nice, indeed.
*Single
Doing everything your own way: Pretty goddamned sweet in it's own right.
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RE: What's your most favorite thing about being Single/Married?
January 30, 2017 at 5:26 pm
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When you put it that way you make me wanna stay single forever.
But then.... after seeing Shell B's post I just crave the perfect relationship.
Oh but Thena:
P.S. You're lovely.
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RE: What's your most favorite thing about being Single/Married?
January 30, 2017 at 5:43 pm
Who is going to take care of me when old and senile?
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RE: What's your most favorite thing about being Single/Married?
January 30, 2017 at 5:43 pm
Oh wait.
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RE: What's your most favorite thing about being Single/Married?
January 30, 2017 at 5:50 pm
(January 30, 2017 at 5:26 pm)Alasdair Ham Wrote: When you put it that way you make me wanna stay single forever.
I'm sure there are many other selling points in regards to being married; I just happened to have been married to the wrong person, is all. I doubt I'd have much difficulty relinquishing some of my autonomy, if I were to be committed to someone more suitable.
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RE: What's your most favorite thing about being Single/Married?
January 30, 2017 at 6:34 pm
Negatives of being married? The main one is the extra hassle if it goes wrong, as opposed to just being partners. But the extra commitment and the legal security are well worth it, in my opinion. I want my wife to be able to make decisions on my behalf if any need making, and to have everything I own if anything happens to me. I don't want her to have to fight anyone.
I'd say that in life, you have to take some risks to get what you want. If you enjoy relationships, it's worth the potential of them going wrong. This is my... third long term relationship, and I learnt lots of things from my previous ones. I wouldn't have married the previous two because I didn't feel that level of confidence that I do now that it would be "forever".
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