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What level of dominance/submission do you expect from a romantic partner?

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What level of dominance/submission do you expect from a romantic partner?
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RE: What level of dominance/submission do you expect from a romantic partner?
February 12, 2017 at 7:51 pm
(February 12, 2017 at 6:50 pm)Orochi Wrote: Out of bed  egalitarianism reigns

In bed .Or in the kitchen. Or living room.  Or in the hot tub .Or the one time in the park . I'm in charge. And the ropes and other such implements have a turn over rate Wink

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RE: What level of dominance/submission do you expect from a romantic partner?
February 12, 2017 at 8:07 pm
I find this discussion somewhat disturbing!





Nah, not really!

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RE: What level of dominance/submission do you expect from a romantic partner?
February 12, 2017 at 8:09 pm
(February 12, 2017 at 4:35 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote:
(February 12, 2017 at 4:33 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: I almost forgot, must be humiliation free. That means no laughing at the truss, greys or liver spots!

But it's okay to laugh at small todgers?

My standard line is "I was in the pool.".
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RE: What level of dominance/submission do you expect from a romantic partner?
February 12, 2017 at 8:10 pm
(February 12, 2017 at 8:09 pm)mh.brewer Wrote:
(February 12, 2017 at 4:35 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: But it's okay to laugh at small todgers?

My standard line is "I was in the pool.".

You were in Pool?

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February 12, 2017 at 8:15 pm
(February 12, 2017 at 8:10 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote:
(February 12, 2017 at 8:09 pm)mh.brewer Wrote: My standard line is "I was in the pool.".

You were in Pool?

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RE: What level of dominance/submission do you expect from a romantic partner?
February 12, 2017 at 8:19 pm
(February 12, 2017 at 8:15 pm)mh.brewer Wrote:
(February 12, 2017 at 8:10 pm)The Valkyrie Wrote: You were in Pool?

Was it Great?


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February 12, 2017 at 8:24 pm (This post was last modified: February 12, 2017 at 8:26 pm by Amarok.)
(February 12, 2017 at 7:51 pm)mh.brewer Wrote:
(February 12, 2017 at 6:50 pm)Orochi Wrote: Out of bed  egalitarianism reigns

In bed .Or in the kitchen. Or living room.  Or in the hot tub .Or the one time in the park . I'm in charge. And the ropes and other such implements have a turn over rate Wink

bold mine

Ya mean like RPM? Zoom Zoom! Love me some red line Evinrude!

Nope I mean like I have to replace them quite a bit due to use . Especially when it's role-play week. Smile
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RE: What level of dominance/submission do you expect from a romantic partner?
February 12, 2017 at 8:28 pm
I don't EVER recall anyone declining to roll over and shut up if I asked.
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RE: What level of dominance/submission do you expect from a romantic partner?
February 12, 2017 at 8:37 pm
I actually find dominance/submission to be an incredible turn-off. I had a partner who was interested in BDSM and I absolutely hated it, regardless of which role I was playing.
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February 12, 2017 at 9:41 pm (This post was last modified: February 12, 2017 at 9:46 pm by Jello.)
For me, there is no real expectancy. I guess you can take that as because i have yet to do much in the bedroom, i've yet to figure it out. All i can really say is, i guess i'm the dominant one by default, because my girlfriend seems rather submissive from how she's worded it, at least.

Outside the bedroom, it's definitely a thing of equals. I'd rather have my girlfriend, who is willing to fight me over what she disagrees with, than some girl who just went along with whatever i said without a care in the world. Tongue


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