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How do Men/Women Experience Love?
#31
RE: How do Men/Women Experience Love?
FWIW,

Dewey, or more specifically, my feelings for him are easier to have than what I experience with Brian. I don't 'stalk' Dewey, but ~ annually, I google a bit and he's alive and well, over a 100 miles from here, and living with the same man for many years. Curiously, I have a recent picture of him, but not Dewey. It's eerie how much he resembles Dewey.

Really.


Disturbing.


Well, anyhow, Dewey is alive and well and I'm content with that. Brian, well, Brian died, and that is way tougher. Way tougher by far. He's been gone longer than he was alive.

I've mentioned at 12 Steppers I don't know if folks that never met him are lucky for their omission or cursed perhaps for not having met a truly exceptional person and being diminished as a result. As for me . . .
 The granting of a pardon is an imputation of guilt, and the acceptance a confession of it. 




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#32
RE: How do Men/Women Experience Love?
(July 17, 2017 at 11:31 pm)ScienceAf Wrote:
(July 17, 2017 at 11:29 pm)J a c k Wrote: We do.

Let me tell you all about love.






Good luck, hun.

Atleast you guys like us cooking,

Tell me something about crushes then if you can

Well... where to start?
When I was a child... I had a crush on Wendy. My first crush ever from age six to about 13. I moved around everywhere and came back to town years later at 13. She held my hand as she presented me to all her friends and I felt like I was holding a superstar's hand. I was so proud, nervous, stupid hand sweating, and... guilty. Heh. Religion, ammiright?

When I was a little older... a crush meant I'd wait for him to fly from medical school once a month for a few kisses and poetry on his guitar.

Then it was a pair of glasses and long black curly hair. A crush meant I'd pass by the barbie isle at work more often than I actually needed just to see if this time, this time I'd remember how to talk.

There was the agnostic shorty who taught me how to... well... she taught me stuff that you're too young to know. Also, thanks to her I learned what an agnostic is, and that I didn't believe.

A crush is when you go to California four hours away to a concert. The girl who's waiting there is everything. You get lost and waste time, and then stuff happens and you have to run a mile in high heels to get to the car that will take you to her... and you do it because she's everything. When you get there and the car stops, and you see her and she turns around and looks at you... you feel tiny. She speaks and her voice is... everything. You have the best night ever by her side and nothing matters. Not even The Cure, because she's everything. So much so, that when she moves away it hurts like a mother fucking hole on your chest. But it doesn't matter, because you're no good for her anyway. You're too damaged. Heh.. people call that "the one that got away".

A crush is when she walks in the office every morning and you lose your swag. She can be a bitch and play with your feelings, and all she has to do is walk into your cubicle and fill it up with the scent of her shampoo, her hand lotion... and you just have to smile. Fuck. Need me to move your desk again? I gotchu.

A crush is when the person is waaaaay out of your league and they can make you blush like an idiot  just by typing a few careless words. You look at them and see the special in them.. their brain is so amazing. Everything they talk about is interesting, even when it wasn't before. That brain, man. That face. That presence. Just being around them is a privilege and they know, and they're still cool. I mean... who doesn't like having a fan? Fuck. So beautiful.

A crush sometimes means you click with someone and want time to grow so you can stare at them, pay attention, dig into their head and pick out crumbs that nobody else has touched. Then you remember it's not your head to pick at, so you leave it alone and just... well, offer a high five. Because stories are better sometimes when all the pieces make sense and you use your reason to play the game. Walk away now, or stay another day. To make it make sense, or to fuck this one up as history knows. Damn. What am I saying? Lol

Crushes, right? But... I know nothing, Jon Snow.
"Hipster is what happens when young hot people do what old ladies do." -Exian
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#33
RE: How do Men/Women Experience Love?
(July 18, 2017 at 1:57 am)The Valkyrie Wrote: Your cat's 30 years old?

What's  his name, Noah?

And does he like boats?

Ha!

Nup, I'm strictly a serial cattist!

First Mavros, then ChiChi, and now Hachi (the chocolate turd)

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Know God, Know fear.
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#34
RE: How do Men/Women Experience Love?
I am atheist, what could I possibly know about love?

Isn't it just sweaty?

But Mrs JR is pretty awesome.
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#35
RE: How do Men/Women Experience Love?
(July 18, 2017 at 3:07 am)JackRussell Wrote: I am atheist, what could I possibly know about love?

Isn't it just sweaty?

But Mrs JR is pretty awesome.

But it's the good kind of sweaty...

Playing Cluedo with my mum while I was at Uni:

"You did WHAT?  With WHO?  WHERE???"
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#36
RE: How do Men/Women Experience Love?
Ya know, kid. I read my response and I think it's pretty darn wholesome. I think I deserve a rep as a thank you for my generous wisdom. Lol I mean.... pshhhhh. Only if you want to and it comes from your heart. No pressure. Ya know?


"Hipster is what happens when young hot people do what old ladies do." -Exian
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#37
RE: How do Men/Women Experience Love?
Speaking as I man who experiences the love of two woman .And one of those women having a relationship with the other . I can say that whole thing is freaking complicated Tongue
Seek strength, not to be greater than my brother, but to fight my greatest enemy -- myself.

Inuit Proverb

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#38
RE: How do Men/Women Experience Love?
(July 18, 2017 at 3:21 am)J a c k Wrote: Ya know, kid. I read my response and I think it's pretty darn wholesome. I think I deserve a rep as a thank you for my generous wisdom. Lol I mean.... pshhhhh. Only if you want to and it comes from your heart. No pressure. Ya know?



OMG!

The rep whore is now taking advantage of little kids! lol!
Judi will be here shortly, you watch!

(ps, I just repped him too. I felt left out Big Grin)
No God, No fear.
Know God, Know fear.
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#39
RE: How do Men/Women Experience Love?
(July 18, 2017 at 3:44 am)Tizheruk Wrote: Speaking as I man who experiences the love of two woman .And one of those women having a relationship with the other . I can say that whole thing is freaking complicated Tongue

I sense a story we should be hearing...

Playing Cluedo with my mum while I was at Uni:

"You did WHAT?  With WHO?  WHERE???"
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#40
RE: How do Men/Women Experience Love?
Beccs, what if they're both sisters? Does that bother you? (like his mum and his Aunt?) hehe
No God, No fear.
Know God, Know fear.
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