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Homophobia. A misleading label
#11
RE: Homophobia. A misleading label
(October 27, 2010 at 5:48 am)Synackaon Wrote: Dude, just state clearly that you're not interested in the same sex the exact manner as you're interested in the opposite sex.

As far as I am concerned, this is a thread about someone discussing how they don't do men.

No. It's about reconizing the prejudice within attempting to overcome it. It's about the incorrect discriptor society uses when refering to folks such as myself. The label "Homophobia" was not helping me to come to terms and move towards overcoming this irrational dislike.
Understanding, I believe is the first step to overcoming an irrationallity of any sort. This was a start.

To allude that I must be gay because I am heterosexual doesn't help. It's like saying Fr0d0's arguements are reasonable because they are unreasonable. You just reinforce the prejudice within.

Defining the "phobia" or prejudice within, IMO, is the first step towards understanding and maybe eventually overcoming and purging the irrationallity of it.
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#12
RE: Homophobia. A misleading label
(October 27, 2010 at 8:19 am)Saerules Wrote: Oh, and anyone who agrees with that statement was both C-sectioned and bottle-fed. With cows milk.
Check.
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#13
RE: Homophobia. A misleading label
(October 27, 2010 at 8:29 am)fr0d0 Wrote:
(October 27, 2010 at 8:19 am)Saerules Wrote: Oh, and anyone who agrees with that statement was both C-sectioned and bottle-fed. With cows milk.
Check.

This explains so much, fr0d0 Thinking

At times I wonder if similar things happened with me as well. It is difficult to envision myself as a titsucker 0.o Clearly... *I* need a girlfriend Tongue
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
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#14
RE: Homophobia. A misleading label
Do you know many homosexuals closely Dotard? With me I think it was the unfamiliarity, and the de-facto stance of my immediate cohort. Once exposed to the idea you see people rather than fear.
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#15
RE: Homophobia. A misleading label
I'm sure it matters to you, because "homophobia," or whatever is your feeling. For me, I know the definition, so the misnomer doesn't bother me much. I realize that "homophobics" don't start hyperventilating or freaking out when gay people are around. Therefore, I never gave it much thought, nor do I really care to.

I hope that you are able to overcome your irrational dislike of gay people. You might find that some are very cool people. They're individuals, just like women. Smile
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#16
RE: Homophobia. A misleading label
Shell B Wrote:I hope that you are able to overcome your irrational dislike of gay people. You might find that some are very cool people. They're individuals, just like women. Smile

I'm not sure that they are individuals... they seem to all be the same person, even me 0.o I'm just lucky to have experienced a different platform... when I return to assimilate, I will have brought something truly unique back.
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
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#17
RE: Homophobia. A misleading label
(October 27, 2010 at 8:44 am)Saerules Wrote: I'm not sure that they are individuals... they seem to all be the same person, even me 0.o

That's because there is only one gay person in Alaska. Big Grin
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#18
RE: Homophobia. A misleading label
(October 27, 2010 at 8:46 am)Shell B Wrote:
(October 27, 2010 at 8:44 am)Saerules Wrote: I'm not sure that they are individuals... they seem to all be the same person, even me 0.o

That's because there is only one gay person in Alaska. Big Grin

... please... please tell me it isn't a guy...? :S
Please give me a home where cloud buffalo roam
Where the dear and the strangers can play
Where sometimes is heard a discouraging word
But the skies are not stormy all day
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#19
RE: Homophobia. A misleading label
(October 27, 2010 at 8:48 am)Saerules Wrote: ... please... please tell me it isn't a guy...? :S

I doubt it. None of the gay men I know would put up with that weather and lack of shopping. Tongue

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#20
RE: Homophobia. A misleading label
(October 27, 2010 at 8:19 am)Saerules Wrote: No, but I hope that Yoda being full of shit was one of the things. Sleepy

Awwww... I LIKE Yoda. If there was a male I would actually 'do'. Yoda is it!

Quote:Shock Then what do I call you?! Shock

How about Dotard?

Quote:Other than the obvious title of 'God', of course.

of course. Smile


Quote:This is very well reasoned, actually. I agree. This isn't to state homophobia doesn't exist... but rather that it is a very misused term in many cases Smile

Zackly.


Quote:Then I involke the titty argument.

Titty arguement?

Quote:....birth traumatizes little babies. I mean they TOUCHED a vagina! They'll be traumatized for life.

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Quote:And the best are all women.

The best what?[/quote]
I used to tell a lot of religious jokes. Not any more, I'm a registered sects offender.
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