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Dating advice
#11
RE: Dating advice
Mover to the UK and date anybody; nobody gives a shite about religion anymore Smile

But the teeth, I know!!
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#12
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I see this as a comunication problem , nothing more. Never imagined that someone could brake up because of religious views.
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#13
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(October 20, 2017 at 8:58 pm)seandiggy Wrote: ok, so I am looking to gather some thoughts on dating/love etc...

I recently ended an 11 year marriage, long story...but in short, she was hardcore christian and I'm an atheist, we were looking to have kids and well, that in itself created enough of a catalyst to really re-evaluate "us"... now, I'm dating a girl, who is a christian, and knows very well I'm an atheist.  She is not pushy at a all and I greatly appreciate that.  I do like her, but I'm concerned that this may be unfair to either one of us or both of us to let it continue. I'm not completely sure of what to do, and well... looking ot gather some thoughts.  the girl that I was married to is nothing like this girl, and so it's not the same in that situation, but nonetheless, I could us some input.

Being religious can be so vague.  I've found myself being with girls who called themselves Muslim or Christian but they don't even really follow the religion.  If whatever she cherrypicked out of Christianity doesn't bother you too much, and her believing in some supernatural stuff you don't believe in doesn't bother you that much then I don't think it's too much of a problem as long as you aren't in disagreement over anything either of you find really important in life.


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#14
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(October 21, 2017 at 9:00 am)notimportant1234 Wrote: I see this as a comunication problem , nothing more. Never imagined that someone could brake up because of religious views.

bold mine

You need to get out more.
Being told you're delusional does not necessarily mean you're mental. 
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#15
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(October 21, 2017 at 7:17 am)mh.brewer Wrote: Married to a catholic. We make it work (even though she's a bit looney).


And Mr. Brewer and his missus have TWO, count them, 2! doggies together.
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#16
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(October 20, 2017 at 10:43 pm)Minimalist Wrote: Did he make you call him "Father?"

Priests tend not to be guilt ridden on the whole. Brimfull of self importance, maybe.
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#17
RE: Dating advice
(October 21, 2017 at 9:27 am)mh.brewer Wrote:
(October 21, 2017 at 9:00 am)notimportant1234 Wrote: I see this as a comunication problem , nothing more. Never imagined that someone could brake up because of religious views.

bold mine

You need to get out more.

Well , in my country most people are theists(Ortodox) , soo it's almost imposible to find a case like this.
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#18
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(October 21, 2017 at 8:30 am)chimp3 Wrote: seandiggy! You claim to have been a teacher, chemist, and now a physician. Obviously not a millennial. Why do you refer to your ex-wife of 11 years and current partner as girls?

 Things that make you go hmmm...

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#19
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(October 21, 2017 at 9:33 am)Whateverist Wrote:
(October 21, 2017 at 7:17 am)mh.brewer Wrote: Married to a catholic. We make it work (even though she's a bit looney).


And Mr. Brewer and his missus have TWO, count them, 2! doggies together.

We've got no clue what the hell their religion is. Whatever it is, it must allow for incest.
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#20
RE: Dating advice
(October 20, 2017 at 8:58 pm)seandiggy Wrote: ok, so I am looking to gather some thoughts on dating/love etc...

I recently ended an 11 year marriage, long story...but in short, she was hardcore christian and I'm an atheist, we were looking to have kids and well, that in itself created enough of a catalyst to really re-evaluate "us"... now, I'm dating a girl, who is a christian, and knows very well I'm an atheist.  She is not pushy at a all and I greatly appreciate that.  I do like her, but I'm concerned that this may be unfair to either one of us or both of us to let it continue. I'm not completely sure of what to do, and well... looking ot gather some thoughts.  the girl that I was married to is nothing like this girl, and so it's not the same in that situation, but nonetheless, I could us some input.

Why would it be unfair?  If both of you know who the other is going in, you both chose your own level of involvement.  My wife and I are approaching our tenth anniversary this year.  Shes a believer...I'm not -just- a nonbeliever.  I'm more aggressive and vocal than all that.

It hasn't been a problem.
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