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Are people normally this confussing when you are asking them out?
#21
RE: Are people normally this confussing when you are asking them out?
Although as a note, If she's like, way better looking than you then it's probably a rejection.
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#22
RE: Are people normally this confussing when you are asking them out?
My dating advice is procured from comedy sitcoms where pursuing a girl until she finally says yes is considered romantic.
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#23
RE: Are people normally this confussing when you are asking them out?
(June 1, 2018 at 2:17 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I wouldn't ask a third time, personally. Being a girl myself, if I was interested I would have said yes the first time. The second time was fine to ask, just to be sure I guess.

But at this point, if she decides she is interested in him, she will reach out to him. She already knows he is interested.

It isn't fun being asked out and having to turn someone down. I wouldn't make her have to go through it a third time.

I'd normally agree, if she flat out rejected him. But she said "I'll have to think about it" that automatically leaves the door open. I think "hey, have you given going out with me any more thought?" is appropriate. Then you can get a more clear answer.

Btw, not that this is relevant to this case, but in many countries a man is expected to ask a girl out multiple times before she says yes.
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#24
RE: Are people normally this confussing when you are asking them out?
(June 1, 2018 at 2:23 pm)CapnAwesome Wrote:
(June 1, 2018 at 2:17 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I wouldn't ask a third time, personally. Being a girl myself, if I was interested I would have said yes the first time. The second time was fine to ask, just to be sure I guess.

But at this point, if she decides she is interested in him, she will reach out to him. She already knows he is interested.

It isn't fun being asked out and having to turn someone down. I wouldn't make her have to go through it a third time.

I'd normally agree, if she flat out rejected him. But she said "I'll have to think about it" that automatically leaves the door open. I think "hey, have you given going out with me any more thought?" is appropriate. Then you can get a more clear answer.

Btw, not that this is relevant to this case, but in many countries a man is expected to ask a girl out multiple times before she says yes.

She is letting him down easy. I've done it myself many times. Saying no is very hard.
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#25
RE: Are people normally this confussing when you are asking them out?
(June 1, 2018 at 2:13 pm)CapnAwesome Wrote:
(June 1, 2018 at 2:12 pm)Kit Wrote: You must have better social skills than most of us.  Wink

Yep. Also better abs.

I have sexier man nipples though. Even with my A cup moobs.

(June 1, 2018 at 2:18 pm)CapnAwesome Wrote: Although as a note, If she's like, way better looking than you then it's probably a rejection.

She's a woman. Of course she's way better looking. Men are either wannabe pretty boys or caveman meatbags. Neither being as pretty as even the ugliest women. And I say this as a handsome man Tongue
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#26
RE: Are people normally this confussing when you are asking them out?
I think men are better looking lol
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly." 

-walsh
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#27
RE: Are people normally this confussing when you are asking them out?
(June 1, 2018 at 3:53 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I think men are better looking lol

I agree.
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#28
RE: Are people normally this confussing when you are asking them out?
(June 1, 2018 at 3:54 pm)Kit Wrote:
(June 1, 2018 at 3:53 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I think men are better looking lol

I agree.

I disagree...
But such is our nature.
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#29
RE: Are people normally this confussing when you are asking them out?
Heh I think people with brown eyes are better looking
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#30
RE: Are people normally this confussing when you are asking them out?
Really? I like light blue eyes the best. But Basically any color is better than brown imho.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly." 

-walsh
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