Real Men

[The Architect Of Fate]

I'm not sure i agree . I think that's condemnation of our society rather than praise of her actions .

Not sure why it must be “rather”

Also, if there is nothing to condemn in our society, then there would be less room for heroism in it.

What i mean is there should be no reason for her to have to commit such an act . And i disagree even an ideal society could have heroes as even an ideal society would still need to overcome something .

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Save a baby from a burning building at risk of your life - THEN you get the title...

Depends on the reason they are doing so .Simply risking your life isn't heroic if there is a less than honorable reason for doing so .

[BrianSoddingBoru4]

I once knew a widowed mum with three children. She worked three jobs to keep the kids from being hungry and homeless rather than resort to public assistance. That’s always struck me as pretty heroic.

I'm not sure i agree . I think that's condemnation of our society rather than praise of her actions .

It was her choice.  She could have easily gone on the dole and made enough that way to support herself and the kids.  It isn't always outside circumstances that define heroism.  Sometimes it's what we do when we don't have to.

Boru

[onlinebiker]

I'm not sure i agree . I think that's condemnation of our society rather than praise of her actions .

It was her choice.  She could have easily gone on the dole and made enough that way to support herself and the kids.  It isn't always outside circumstances that define heroism.  Sometimes it's what we do when we don't have to.

Boru

That's not heroism - but an excellent case of leading by example.

It's what good parents do.

[BrianSoddingBoru4]

It was her choice.  She could have easily gone on the dole and made enough that way to support herself and the kids.  It isn't always outside circumstances that define heroism.  Sometimes it's what we do when we don't have to.

Boru

That's not heroism - but an excellent case of leading by example.

It's what good parents do.

How is it NOT heroism?

Boru

[onlinebiker]

That's not heroism - but an excellent case of leading by example.

It's what good parents do.

How is it NOT heroism?

Boru

I guess I have a higher standard.

When an individual risks their life for others - that's heroic.... It has to be above and beyond the call of duty.

Just doing your job - even in an excellent manner - just doesn't cut it....

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[The Architect Of Fate]

I'm not sure i agree . I think that's condemnation of our society rather than praise of her actions .

It was her choice.  She could have easily gone on the dole and made enough that way to support herself and the kids.  It isn't always outside circumstances that define heroism.  Sometimes it's what we do when we don't have to.

Boru

The very fact she was put in that position or forced to make that choice in the first place is tragic

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That's not heroism - but an excellent case of leading by example.

It's what good parents do

Parenthood is heroic .Too have another human life in ones charge .How could it not be?

[onlinebiker]

Children are optional.

Nobody makes you have them.

If you do have them - you have an obligation to take care of them.

It's great to see people doing it - but it's not heroic.

[The Architect Of Fate]

Children  are optional.

A regular citizen into a burning building to save others is also optional 

Nobody makes you have them.

No one makes a citizen charge into a burning building to save others either

If you do have them - you have an obligation to take care of them.

Obligation can be heroic 

It's great to see people doing it - but it's not heroic.

I disagree

[onlinebiker]

Children  are optional.

A regular citizen into a burning building to save others is also optional 

Nobody makes you have them.

No one makes a citizen charge into a burning building to save others either

If you do have them - you have an obligation to take care of them.

Obligation can be heroic 

It's great to see people doing it - but it's not heroic.

I disagree

That's because you're a jaded wanker with low standards....

[The Architect Of Fate]

That's because you're a jaded wanker with low standards....

Being called jaded by a cynic like you is hilarious and having my standards questioned by you is even funnier