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[Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men
#11
RE: [Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men
Have you met your 'mate' yet, @WinterHold ?

I'm of the opinion that this culture that you have to have a SO to be happy is an insult to all those who are simply happy without a SO. We're all so bloody varied that there are plenty of people who are fine by their lonesome, romantically speaking, and still be a part of a Community. There does exist something called asexuality, ya know.
"The first principle is that you must not fool yourself — and you are the easiest person to fool." - Richard P. Feynman
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#12
RE: [Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men
(October 16, 2020 at 6:43 pm)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: It’s nice that Allah provided for these perfectly harmonious unions. This is why domestic abuse doesn’t exist in the Muslim world.

Boru

If you equalize the performance of people with the message they claim to hold, then you are a very ignorant person lacking experience in life; or perhaps "acting a fool" on purpose.

(October 17, 2020 at 4:19 am)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: For married Muslim men, the old 'Have you stopped beating your wife?' isn't a trick question.  The answer is always, 'Of course not.'

Boru


[Quranic Reflection]: Women have the right to state their own rights in the marriage

https://atheistforums.org/thread-61203.html

Please read this topic again, because you repeated your same comment there.

(October 17, 2020 at 5:18 am)Sal Wrote: Have you met your 'mate' yet, @WinterHold ?

I'm of the opinion that this culture that you have to have a SO to be happy is an insult to all those who are simply happy without a SO. We're all so bloody varied that there are plenty of people who are fine by their lonesome, romantically speaking, and still be a part of a Community. There does exist something called asexuality, ya know.

If you may elaborate on the meaning of "SO", because I don't know what you mean.
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#13
RE: [Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men
(October 17, 2020 at 11:03 am)WinterHold Wrote:
(October 16, 2020 at 6:43 pm)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: It’s nice that Allah provided for these perfectly harmonious unions. This is why domestic abuse doesn’t exist in the Muslim world.

Boru

If you equalize the performance of people with the message they claim to hold, then you are a very ignorant person lacking experience in life; or perhaps "acting a fool" on purpose.

(October 17, 2020 at 4:19 am)BrianSoddingBoru4 Wrote: For married Muslim men, the old 'Have you stopped beating your wife?' isn't a trick question.  The answer is always, 'Of course not.'

Boru


[Quranic Reflection]: Women have the right to state their own rights in the marriage

https://atheistforums.org/thread-61203.html

Please read this topic again, because you repeated your same comment there.

(October 17, 2020 at 5:18 am)Sal Wrote: Have you met your 'mate' yet, @WinterHold ?

I'm of the opinion that this culture that you have to have a SO to be happy is an insult to all those who are simply happy without a SO. We're all so bloody varied that there are plenty of people who are fine by their lonesome, romantically speaking, and still be a part of a Community. There does exist something called asexuality, ya know.

If you may elaborate on the meaning of "SO", because I don't know what you mean.

And I’m likely to repeat it more, for as long as Muslim men are idiotic enough to think they have the divine right to physically chastise their wives and children.

Boru
‘Let me never fall into the vulgar mistake of dreaming that I am persecuted whenever I am contradicted.’ Ralph Waldo Emerson
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#14
RE: [Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men
This magic sky pixie of yours must really have a thing for seahorses, they mate for life. As do several other creatures, sad that the most devine creation isn't one of those creatures.

With all that is flawed in creation, it's almost as if a perfect creator is nothing more than a fairy tale.
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RE: [Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men
(October 16, 2020 at 6:00 pm)WinterHold Wrote: Mates are one of the blessings of God on humans. He made us male and female for a reason.

He says in the Quran:


Quote:Sura 30, The Quran:
https://quran.ksu.edu.sa/index.php?l=en#...rans=en_sh

( 21 )   And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.

The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men is the ultimate form of relief from life's stress and the ultimate form of tranquillity. Only when we find our perfect mate is when we feel our missing part is finally whole again, humans are made from one soul after all:
Bold Italics mine...
If all humans are made from one soul I need some explanation how finding the perfect mate makes a person feel whole?
Makes no damn sense.  If all humans are one soul that soul is complete...is it not?
 “Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I’m not sure about the universe.” ~Albert Einstein                                                 
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RE: [Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men
(October 17, 2020 at 2:52 pm)arewethereyet Wrote:
(October 16, 2020 at 6:00 pm)WinterHold Wrote: Mates are one of the blessings of God on humans. He made us male and female for a reason.

He says in the Quran:



The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men is the ultimate form of relief from life's stress and the ultimate form of tranquillity. Only when we find our perfect mate is when we feel our missing part is finally whole again, humans are made from one soul after all:
Bold Italics mine...
If all humans are made from one soul I need some explanation how finding the perfect mate makes a person feel whole?
Makes no damn sense.  If all humans are one soul that soul is complete...is it not?

It is even proved biologically: female XX unite with male XY to produce the full human, it is only after 5 weeks do the fetus displays its gender:

Quote:A human fetus does not develop its external sexual organs until seven weeks after fertilization. The fetus appears to be sexually indifferent, looking neither like a male or a female. Over the next five weeks, the fetus begins producing hormones that cause its sex organs to grow into either male or female organs.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_dif..._in_humans

We are created from one soul, then the gender is specified.
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#17
RE: [Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men
(October 17, 2020 at 3:02 pm)WinterHold Wrote:
(October 17, 2020 at 2:52 pm)arewethereyet Wrote: Bold Italics mine...
If all humans are made from one soul I need some explanation how finding the perfect mate makes a person feel whole?
Makes no damn sense.  If all humans are one soul that soul is complete...is it not?

It is even proved biologically: female YY unite with male XY to produce the full human, it is only after 5 weeks do the fetus displays its gender:

Quote:A human fetus does not develop its external sexual organs until seven weeks after fertilization. The fetus appears to be sexually indifferent, looking neither like a male or a female. Over the next five weeks, the fetus begins producing hormones that cause its sex organs to grow into either male or female organs.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_dif..._in_humans

We are created from one soul, then the gender is specified.

Surely you can't say this crap with a straight face.

And...you dodged my question.  Typical of you so not unexpected.
 “Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I’m not sure about the universe.” ~Albert Einstein                                                 
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#18
RE: [Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men
I should also say that this is usual everyday knowledge to a Quran reader -even before 1400 years-:


Quote:Sura 7, The Quran:
https://quran.ksu.edu.sa/index.php?l=en#...rans=en_sh

( 189 )   It is He who created you from one soul and created from it its mate that he might dwell in security with her. And when he covers her, she carries a light burden and continues therein. And when it becomes heavy, they both invoke Allah, their Lord, "If You should give us a good [child], we will surely be among the grateful."

(October 17, 2020 at 3:04 pm)arewethereyet Wrote:
(October 17, 2020 at 3:02 pm)WinterHold Wrote: It is even proved biologically: female XX unite with male XY to produce the full human, it is only after 5 weeks do the fetus displays its gender:


We are created from one soul, then the gender is specified.

Surely you can't say this crap with a straight face.

And...you dodged my question.  Typical of you so not unexpected.

Not dodging anything.
I even brought you a credible link + a Quranic verse. It is my faith; so...I'm quite serious
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#19
RE: [Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men
(October 17, 2020 at 3:07 pm)WinterHold Wrote: I should also say that this is usual everyday knowledge to a Quran reader -even before 1400 years-:


Quote:Sura 7, The Quran:
https://quran.ksu.edu.sa/index.php?l=en#...rans=en_sh

( 189 )   It is He who created you from one soul and created from it its mate that he might dwell in security with her. And when he covers her, she carries a light burden and continues therein. And when it becomes heavy, they both invoke Allah, their Lord, "If You should give us a good [child], we will surely be among the grateful."

(October 17, 2020 at 3:04 pm)arewethereyet Wrote: Surely you can't say this crap with a straight face.

And...you dodged my question.  Typical of you so not unexpected.

Not dodging anything.
I even brought you a credible link +  a Quranic verse. It is my faith; so...I'm quite serious
If you have to resort to a link that means you can't explain it.
 “Two things are infinite: the universe and human stupidity; and I’m not sure about the universe.” ~Albert Einstein                                                 
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RE: [Quranic Reflection]: The tranquillity men find in women and women find in men
(October 17, 2020 at 11:03 am)WinterHold Wrote: If you may elaborate on the meaning of "SO", because I don't know what you mean.
SO = significant other

Just an initialism for a partner.
"The first principle is that you must not fool yourself — and you are the easiest person to fool." - Richard P. Feynman
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