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#21
RE: Age Gap Relationships
September 20, 2023 at 12:18 pm
Lol. Especially with me.
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RE: Age Gap Relationships
September 20, 2023 at 12:28 pm
[Image: sarcasmstart.jpg] Oh yeah? [Image: sarcasmend.jpg]

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#23
RE: Age Gap Relationships
September 20, 2023 at 1:20 pm
The boyfriend is twelve years older than me.
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#24
RE: Age Gap Relationships
September 20, 2023 at 5:12 pm
I'm 47. My GF is 23. It's an obvious age gap.
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#25
RE: Age Gap Relationships
September 20, 2023 at 7:19 pm
(September 20, 2023 at 6:58 am)zebo-the-fat Wrote: My wife is 9 years younger than me, not a huge gap, but it did raise some comments when we were younger, as we both slip into senility it matters less and less!

I'm 4 1/2 years older than my wife, when we first met and started dating, she was only 16 1/2, and I had just turned 21. It raised some eyebrows at first, but my future mother-in-law trusted me enough to let us become a couple.
We've been together for over 43 years now.
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#26
RE: Age Gap Relationships
September 20, 2023 at 7:20 pm
(September 20, 2023 at 5:12 pm)FrustratedFool Wrote: I'm 47.  My GF is 23.  It's an obvious age gap.

Who cares? You're both adults, it shouldn't matter to anyone else.
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RE: Age Gap Relationships
September 20, 2023 at 8:15 pm
What we should do vs what we do, lol. I'll probably feel some kind of way about it if my kids bring home someone half or twice their age.
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#28
RE: Age Gap Relationships
September 20, 2023 at 8:23 pm
I'm 17 years older than my husband, and we met when he was 35. What's the problem?
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RE: Age Gap Relationships
September 21, 2023 at 1:01 am
(September 20, 2023 at 7:20 pm)MR. Macabre 666 Wrote:
(September 20, 2023 at 5:12 pm)FrustratedFool Wrote: I'm 47.  My GF is 23.  It's an obvious age gap.

Who cares? You're both adults, it shouldn't matter to anyone else.

I agree it shouldn't. But it clearly bothers some people.
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#30
RE: Age Gap Relationships
September 21, 2023 at 5:16 am
(September 20, 2023 at 5:12 pm)FrustratedFool Wrote: I'm 47.  My GF is 23.  It's an obvious age gap.

Have you heard the "Half-your-age-plus-seven" rule?

Quote:According to this rule, a 28-year-old would date no one younger than 21 (half of 28, plus 7) and a 50-year-old would date no one younger than 32 (half of 50, plus 7). Although the provenance of the rule is unclear, it is sometimes said to have originated in France.

By this rule I guess you'd have to go with a 30-year-old. Not that I'm calling the cops on you.

I broke it consistently when I was dating around. Then I got serious with my wife, who is almost exactly my own age.
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