Going to church for family events?

[allan175]

Well, that sounds like a bit of a nuttier church than I've been to!

I see your reasoning, I am happy enough to state my atheism (and my reasons for being one) and if someone can't accept that then it is their problem.

[chatpilot]

It is a very charismatic church that still believes in the gifts of the "Spirit".They cast out devils,speak in tongues,pass out on the floor when touched by a pastor or ministered to and prophesy you name it.Nutty indeed,and to think that I used to be one of those nuts about 15 years ago.

[Rockthatpiano06]

My mom's side of the family is extremely catholic, and my dad's side is methodist so I was brought up going to Sunday school and things but always really questioned. I don't know exactly when I became an atheist but I think somewhere in high school I pretty much decided there as no God, and as a learn more and more I realize the chances of their being a God are nil.

But anyways, I live with my extremely religious aunt and this summer we went to my other aunt's wedding which was in a catholic church. I was very uncomfortable because my aunt that I live with knows about my atheism, as does my immediate family and friends but nobody else really does. It's not that I'm ashamed, I just don't talk about it to avoid conflict. Basically, I just didn't join in the prayer or any of the ritualistic bs, I was just there to support my aunt because I love her. I think I would probably avoid the christening. My grandparents didnt go to my christening because I wasn't being christened catholic, so the way I see it its the same thing.

[Ace Otana]

Hey there new member here,

Long story short...
I am in conflict

I am a very strong atheist, in the past i have always gone to friends/families events at churches and although it has bothered me i have done it out of politeness or respect.

Most recently, i went to my Step-brothers wedding and put up with it.

But now they're about to have their new daughter christened.

The wedding was one thing as they are both consenting adults but i can't agree on any level with christening a child that has no choice in the matter.
I feel like i might be at the age/conviction level to actually not go.

Where do others stand on visiting churches for these things?

Your opinions very much appreciated

Hi!

Now, I can see where your standing and such and I'm able to say that I have been in such situations before. I just went along with it even though I disagreed with it.

If I felt strongly against it, I would of mentioned something. Like for example: I'd rather not go, since I do not believe in this sort of thing and that I disagree with it.

I've refused to sing religious songs in school and I have refused to take part in any religious event regardless of the reason of the event. When asked to pray, I say "I'm an Atheist, I don't believe in god." I state it clear and that if they have a problem with it, they can challange me at anytime. I welcome it.

If you don't want to take part then don't. It's up to you really.
I've gone along with it at times but only at funerals. I don't take part in prayer or religious songs, I just go along because I'm showing respect.

Ace