(September 15, 2015 at 9:31 am)vorlon13 Wrote: So, if everyone is on board with the breastfeeding thing, is it OK if I nuzzle Sam Elliot's chest if the opportunity arises ??

Why not? I would.

(September 15, 2015 at 3:39 am)Pandæmonium Wrote: I'm the same, but I suspect it stems as much from my dislike of small humans as my dislike for public bodily function displays (I too am not a fan of watching people go at it in public).

I only dislike small humans when I'm not close. If I know them, I love them. Probably doesn't make sense to an outsider, but they're only a nuisance to me if they're strangers.

But in my case it really is the dislike of displaying bodily functions. I never got into hardcore porn either. Not even as a teen. Under the best of cases I find it hilarious. Normally I'm as aroused as by watching someone taking a dump. And no, I'm not into watching people taking a dump.

(September 15, 2015 at 2:24 pm)abaris Wrote:

(September 15, 2015 at 3:39 am)Pandæmonium Wrote: I'm the same, but I suspect it stems as much from my dislike of small humans as my dislike for public bodily function displays (I too am not a fan of watching people go at it in public).

I only dislike small humans when I'm not close. If I know them, I love them. Probably doesn't make sense to an outsider, but they're only a nuisance to me if they're strangers.

But in my case it really is the dislike of displaying bodily functions. I never got into hardcore porn either. Not even as a teen. Under the best of cases I find it hilarious. Normally I'm as aroused as by watching someone taking a dump. And no, I'm not into watching people taking a dump.

I get that, but breast feeding is eating.  We all eat in public, and I can't imagine a more appropriate place to eat than a restaurant.  If babies eating bothers you don't look.  I've never seen a woman trying to be seen breast feeding.  Mostly we try not to be seen.

A mother doesn't go out of her way to breast-feed in public, and babies aren't exactly known for respecting the mom's schedules. It is a lot more bothersome for the mom than the people around her, still it is something a mother must do. It is totally normal, and those who find something obscene in this, should be ashamed of their own dirty minds.

(September 15, 2015 at 2:30 pm)Jenny A Wrote: I've never seen a woman trying to be seen breast feeding. 

You must not live in an area where a lot of women seem to do everything but put a giant flashing marquee above their head to indicate they have their breast far more exposed than need be for the baby to comfortably nurse and have positioned themselves for maximum visibility of those around them. They are either A. Seeking attention from other attention seekers who want to "commend" them for doing a natural thing billions of women do/have done -OR- B. want someone to be outraged and say something negative so they can go on social media and complain they were "victimized today for breastfeeding". I see it a lot where I live. You hardly notice the "normal" women who's kid is simply hungry and needs to be fed. The ones who aren't using their baby as some kind of political platform, even if they are feeding it in public, are usually somewhat discreet about it.

Not my body. I have no problem with public breastfeeding.

If I were a breastfeeding woman, my only reservations would be about teenage/preteen boys.

When I was 13, if a woman whipped out her boobies around me, even if there was a baby attached to them I would be rapt. Wouldn't be able to take my eyes off.

I would probably laugh about it if I were the mom though.

(September 15, 2015 at 2:37 pm)Aoi Magi Wrote: A mother doesn't go out of her way to breast-feed in public, and babies aren't exactly known for respecting the mom's schedules.

Speak for you own experiences. They may not go out of their way to breast-feed in public, but it gets more and more common in every place. Without any secrecy. And, as I said, I don't have any problem with it, unless it's in a restaurant.

(September 15, 2015 at 3:07 pm)abaris Wrote:

(September 15, 2015 at 2:37 pm)Aoi Magi Wrote: A mother doesn't go out of her way to breast-feed in public, and babies aren't exactly known for respecting the mom's schedules.

Speak for you own experiences. They may not go out of their way to breast-feed in public, but it gets more and more common in every place. Without any secrecy. And, as I said, I don't have any problem with it, unless it's in a restaurant.

Why would it need secrecy exactly? It's not something immoral or hurts anyone. Asking a mother to not feed her hungry child because a pervert may get perverted thoughts is pretty much the same as those barbarians in the middle east keeping their women in potato-sacks (read burkhas) to avert perverted gazes.

Everyone can eat in restaurants, except babies. 

No problem with it at all.