I'm with pool on this one, and most of you act ridiculously biased.

(April 21, 2016 at 9:39 pm)Excited Penguin Wrote: I'm with pool on this one, and most of you act ridiculously biased.

In what way?

I think I know what way he means.

In a EP-Talking-Out-Of-His-Ass-As-Usual-Way.

Well, biased against him and his message.

(April 21, 2016 at 9:37 pm)The_Empress Wrote:

(April 21, 2016 at 9:28 pm)pool the great Wrote: My honest response would be that you need better judgement when choosing your boyfriends. You can't really complain shitty people for acting shitty,it's their norm. Considering the fact that you were 20 and you're pretty good looking you'd probably have had atleast 3 guys ready to treat you like a princess at that time , right?  Just speculations on my part though, don't get worked up if I turn out to be wrong.
Of course in no way am I justifying what that person did to you.

Am I to assume you had the same advice for the guy in your OP? He should have made better judgement in choosing his girlfriends or he would get himself killed?

Seriously, pool. I'm going to keep repeating it until it sinks in (I'll probably be repeating myself a lot): Your thinking is about as deep as a Justin Bieber song. Think harder.

Just out of curiosity though, was I wrong?

Holy. Fuck.

(April 21, 2016 at 10:21 pm)The_Empress Wrote: Holy. Fuck.

How many nice, respectful, intellectual, good guy "nerds" did you reject before you decided to get into a relationship with this abusive man you spoke of?
Or am I wrong?

(April 21, 2016 at 10:44 pm)pool the great Wrote:

(April 21, 2016 at 10:21 pm)The_Empress Wrote: Holy. Fuck.

How many nice, respectful, intellectual, good guy "nerds" did you reject before you decided to get into a relationship with this abusive man you spoke of?
Or am I wrong?

Dude, my boyfriend for two years before the abusive one was first saxophone in the marching band. He went to college on full scholarship and was an Eagle Scout.

Like I said: think harder.

(April 21, 2016 at 10:53 pm)The_Empress Wrote:

(April 21, 2016 at 10:44 pm)pool the great Wrote: How many nice, respectful, intellectual, good guy "nerds" did you reject before you decided to get into a relationship with this abusive man you spoke of?
Or am I wrong?

Dude, my boyfriend for two years before the abusive one was first saxophone in the marching band. He went to college on full scholarship and was an Eagle Scout.

Like I said: think harder.

So I'm wrong, you have not rejected any nice guys, you were tricked into getting into a relationship with this abusive guy because he put on an act of being a good well behaved, respectful person?
A yes or no would suffice.