I'm very sorry Losty

We all need very special care and comfort at times

(June 29, 2016 at 1:07 pm)Losty Wrote:

(June 29, 2016 at 12:28 pm)Cthulhu Dreaming Wrote: I don't remember what the stages of grief are, but I'm at the one that involves a lot of crying.

Hey cry all you need to and remember as much as you want to be supportive you're not superman. Don't be too hard on yourself.

I'm trying not to be.

I was so emotionally exhausted, I went to bed right after getting home from work. Skipped dinner and everything - and if you know me, skipping dinner is out of the question. Got out of bed 13 hours later, but I'm not depressed, just sad.

I'm glad to be able to cope with this immediately. I used to suppress this kind of thing and that did me no favors.

I think it's definitely unhealthy. I hate the "men don't cry" garbage with a passion.

Feeling sad.

(June 29, 2016 at 1:26 pm)Jello Wrote: Feeling sad.

It's a hug fest of saddies in here today, join the party

Still angry, nursing vengeance fantasies.

Apparently now that she's mad, all the money she sent to support her daughter when she was dying before I met her have suddenly become loans, that she demands be repaid. I pointed out that she's welcome to hire a lawyer with the money she doesn't have, if she can find someone willing to take the case of "I'm mad at my daughter so I'm unilaterally creating retroactive loans based on an agreement we never had before I decided we did because I'm mad." I'd enjoy the court costs she'd have to pay- with the money she doesn't have- when that case gets thrown out day one, and then maybe I'd have to have a word with her former employer about all those time sheets she filled out with hours she never worked on them. I'm sure a fraud case would go so well for her.

For all her flouncing, she really does need us more than we need her. She wants to fight, this won't go well.

Shitty.

(June 29, 2016 at 1:34 pm)Esquilax Wrote: Still angry, nursing vengeance fantasies.

Apparently now that she's mad, all the money she sent to support her daughter when she was dying before I met her have suddenly become loans, that she demands be repaid. I pointed out that she's welcome to hire a lawyer with the money she doesn't have, if she can find someone willing to take the case of "I'm mad at my daughter so I'm unilaterally creating retroactive loans based on an agreement we never had before I decided we did because I'm mad." I'd enjoy the court costs she'd have to pay- with the money she doesn't have- when that case gets thrown out day one, and then maybe I'd have to have a word with her former employer about all those time sheets she filled out with hours she never worked on them. I'm sure a fraud case would go so well for her.

For all her flouncing, she really does need us more than we need her. She wants to fight, this won't go well.

I need to start ordering commissions so you two can get out of there

Sorry to hear about the sadness all round guys

My tummy aches bad

Ouch. Is eating 8 nectarines and 4 bananas in the space of a few hours a bad thing?