One of my favorite movies is "Shallow Hal" with Jack Black and Jason Alexander. 
Jack plays a superficial playboy that when Tony Robins puts a spell on him so he can only see inner beauty. The sexy woman he once was attracted to become hideous and visa versa.
 People can be so fucking beautiful from afar, but soon after observing them as a person become unattractive.  I have never been attracted to asian men, but if I met one that was a beautiful person I know my views would change. Is sexual attraction something that can change with personality or do you just want to fuck hot chicks and dicks?

(June 8, 2017 at 2:21 pm)JamieB Wrote: Is sexual attraction something that can change with personality

Without a doubt.

While I liked the ideas displayed in Shallow Hal, I think it took the idea a little far to the extreme end. Attraction involves a combination of many things, one of which is physical appearance. To shame that one aspect of attraction is just ignoring biology. It may not be the most important part of attraction to me, but it is still at least a small part of it.

(June 8, 2017 at 2:21 pm)JamieB Wrote: One of my favorite movies is "Shallow Hal" with Jack Black and Jason Alexander. 
Jack plays a superficial playboy that when Tony Robins puts a spell on him so he can only see inner beauty. The sexy woman he once was attracted to become hideous and visa versa.
 People can be so fucking beautiful from afar, but soon after observing them as a person become unattractive.  I have never been attracted to asian men, but if I met one that was a beautiful person I know my views would change. Is sexual attraction something that can change with personality or do you just want to fuck hot chicks and dicks?

When I'm just looking at images on the web, I inject them with what I deem to be a likable personality. I guess personality is important to me, so it's better to have a good personality than a bad one, or even none at all. But, even at 41, I feel like I have adolescent hormones, so outer beauty is (in my mind and case, a bit too) important.

I'm completely certain that I'm not even nearly as handsome as my wife thinks I am.  It can only be my super awesome personality. 

Lol May I keep you and shower you with kudos and high fives?

Dude. Same thing happens to me. I've met people who at first glance weren't attractive at all, and then the way they wear their own skin, the way they move, their mannerisms, the way in which they speak, their intelligence, humor, experience... it can make them incredibly irresistible.

Then there are those that are hot at first glance. Damn. Just beautiful. But when you dig deeper, there's nothing, vapid. Some are simply not interesting at all. Nothing to thirst for in them, just flesh.

And then there are those who have it all. That's when you know you're in trouble.

I remember dating a dude who nobody saw what I saw just by looking at his picture. I was so attracted to his whole self, I wasn't able to see what they saw. When they'd point out their opinion based on a picture I posted, I'd be shocked and wonder if we were looking at the same dude. When I finally learned he wasn't at all what I thought he was and he was really just another douche, ah. There it is. Yup. Not attractive at all. I see it. Lol attraction is so interesting to pick at. Some people just click. Like an on button. You don't even need a reason.

(June 8, 2017 at 2:41 pm)c172 Wrote:

(June 8, 2017 at 2:21 pm)JamieB Wrote: One of my favorite movies is "Shallow Hal" with Jack Black and Jason Alexander. 
Jack plays a superficial playboy that when Tony Robins puts a spell on him so he can only see inner beauty. The sexy woman he once was attracted to become hideous and visa versa.
 People can be so fucking beautiful from afar, but soon after observing them as a person become unattractive.  I have never been attracted to asian men, but if I met one that was a beautiful person I know my views would change. Is sexual attraction something that can change with personality or do you just want to fuck hot chicks and dicks?

When I'm just looking at images on the web, I inject them with what I deem to be a likable personality. I guess personality is important to me, so it's better to have a good personality than a bad one, or even none at all. But, even at 41, I feel like I have adolescent hormones, so outer beauty is (in my mind and case, a bit too) important.

I agree. Its so fucking funny what just happened and I think this will really help or hurt your fantasies. I was googling porn star to make a funny joke, and one of my former clients showed up first. Dylan Rider was her stage name. When I first met her she was showing me pics of her hair, but may had boobie shots. She explained to me a lot about the porn industry. She Looked average in person, but her photos were gorgeous. She was a corrections officer at a woman prison when her friend in the porn industry brought her in.  She has a son, and was in crazy custody battle with her ex. Being a porn star doesn't paint the perfect Moma pic. She was moving to Utah last I saw her to start either a children's party business or start a career in colonics. She was nice, but superficial and her choice to marry her biggest fan was an odd one. 
Did that ruin fantasy?

Oh new girl, I like you.

I think it's both. Sometimes even the best personality can't make you attracted to someone. But also sometimes even the hottest body cannot make you attracted to someone with a bad personality.

Probably goes a long way towards a solid one night stand, tho.  

Who doesn't love a little bit a Miss(ter) Right (...now)?

You guys are fucking awesome. Im the odd duck in most group, but I feel like your accepting of my unusual self.
One night stands its looks and sexual personality that helps attractiveness. In a relationship its going to take a lot more.