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Christian best friend asks me to reconsider
#11
RE: Christian best friend asks me to reconsider
"Thanks but no thanks" should do the trick.

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#12
RE: Christian best friend asks me to reconsider
(June 9, 2017 at 6:40 pm)Lutrinae Wrote: I was confronted by fellow church members, brought up to front of the church, and then informed that I needed the demon of homosexuality removed from me.

I honestly cannot remember how I handled the situation.  

During certain stressful situations, I tend to have memory blocks.

All I know for certain is that I realized that in point in time that religion was bullshit.

Jesus fucking Christ !
 The granting of a pardon is an imputation of guilt, and the acceptance a confession of it. 




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#13
RE: Christian best friend asks me to reconsider
(June 9, 2017 at 6:42 pm)vorlon13 Wrote:
(June 9, 2017 at 6:40 pm)Lutrinae Wrote: I was confronted by fellow church members, brought up to front of the church, and then informed that I needed the demon of homosexuality removed from me.

I honestly cannot remember how I handled the situation.  

During certain stressful situations, I tend to have memory blocks.

All I know for certain is that I realized that in point in time that religion was bullshit.

Jesus fucking Christ !

I remember it being a scary situation for me, but I have this tendency of blocking bad situations from my memory. It is why I can remember what lead to the situation, but not precisely what happened during the situation.
"Never trust a fox. Looks like a dog, behaves like a cat."
~ Erin Hunter
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#14
RE: Christian best friend asks me to reconsider
If she is schizophrenic then buying into (even falsely) or propping up/excusing/reinforcing any delusion belief is not going to help her. 

If it were me I'd go back to the "agree to disagree" position, the same as I would with a non schizophrenic theist. As others indicate, be honest with her.
I don't have an anger problem, I have an idiot problem.
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#15
RE: Christian best friend asks me to reconsider
I've been asked to "reconsider" my atheism several times (always by Americans, I don't know anyone else who would say that), and I always found it quite insulting. It's such a lazy line. I'd explain heaps of reasons and evidence and so on, and in the end you can just see that the other person either has no clue what you are talking about or doesn't want to think about it. Yeah whatever, that's all nice, but can't you just reconsider so I can check this "saved" box here and switch my brain back off?
The fool hath said in his heart, There is a God. They are corrupt, they have done abominable works, there is none that doeth good.
Psalm 14, KJV revised edition

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RE: Christian best friend asks me to reconsider
(June 9, 2017 at 6:40 pm)Lutrinae Wrote: I was confronted by fellow church members, brought up to front of the church, and then informed that I needed the demon of homosexuality removed from me.

I honestly cannot remember how I handled the situation.  

During certain stressful situations, I tend to have memory blocks.

All I know for certain is that I realized that point in time that religion was bullshit.

Thats insane, but common. A homosexual man was recently given a chocolate cake of which the flour was prayed over to exercize the homosexual out of this man. They believed it worked. I think the guy ran out of there and was like "Thanx for the cake you fuckin Physcos!" 
I have also blocked out a lot of my childhood memories. It still shocks me when I remember details of the crazy I experienced in my church. 
It pisses me off that christians believe they are helping when casting out the homosexual desire. Im glad you were confident enough to realize the bullshit.
I was a born-again christian for many years then I got woke.. and now life is better in so many ways. It's taking me time to see my value and find my voice, but the reward is liberating knowing my path is not dictated or controlled by fear of death and the unknown.  Casting off the shackles of religion is pretty fucking awesome. The beautiful people I've met on this forum have more heart and compassion than any group of people I've been apart of. So back off Jesus and followers, because this bitch is done with Chu.  Shy 
  
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#17
RE: Christian best friend asks me to reconsider
I feel severely constrained in offering advice in this situation.

Proselytization by a proselyte presupposes the proselyte is sincere in their belief, offering a course of action beyond the scope or in defiance of the referenced Scriptures would be disrespectful of their beliefs.


Tough situation, my sympathies for the predicament you both find yourselves.
 The granting of a pardon is an imputation of guilt, and the acceptance a confession of it. 




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RE: Christian best friend asks me to reconsider
(June 9, 2017 at 6:52 pm)Alex K Wrote: I've been asked to "reconsider" my atheism several times  (always by Americans, I don't know anyone else who would say that), and I always found it quite insulting. It's such a lazy line. I'd explain heaps of reasons and evidence and so on, and in the end you can just see that the other person either has no clue what you are talking about or doesn't want to think about it. Yeah whatever, that's all nice, but can't you just reconsider so I can check this "saved" box here and switch my brain back off?
lolSmile so true and irritating
I was a born-again christian for many years then I got woke.. and now life is better in so many ways. It's taking me time to see my value and find my voice, but the reward is liberating knowing my path is not dictated or controlled by fear of death and the unknown.  Casting off the shackles of religion is pretty fucking awesome. The beautiful people I've met on this forum have more heart and compassion than any group of people I've been apart of. So back off Jesus and followers, because this bitch is done with Chu.  Shy 
  
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RE: Christian best friend asks me to reconsider
(June 9, 2017 at 6:42 pm)Thumpalumpacus Wrote: "Thanks but no thanks" should do the trick.

Failing that....try "Go Blow Jesus Out Your Ass."
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#20
RE: Christian best friend asks me to reconsider
Interesting to contemplate that the more a potential convert might start to believe, the less credible the witness trying to cultivate that belief becomes.
 The granting of a pardon is an imputation of guilt, and the acceptance a confession of it. 




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