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Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
Oh it takes some balance no denial . Especially with one of my lovers needing extra help . But at the end of the day when the three (or how many others have joined us that evening ) are laying around the fire . I can't see love any other way.  Smile
Seek strength, not to be greater than my brother, but to fight my greatest enemy -- myself.

Inuit Proverb

RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
Just pure curiosity, is polyamory for you just you and multiple women? Or are there more men in the mix as well?
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly." 

-walsh
RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
(January 18, 2018 at 5:57 pm)Tizheruk Wrote: Oh it takes some balance no denial . Especially with one of my lovers needing extra help . But at the end of the day when the three (or how many others have joined us that evening ) are laying around the fire . I can't see love any other way.  Smile

Good for you Heart Smile
I’m slowly becoming more and more vanilla, though. I’d be happy with one person to come home to and lay next to as we each do our own thing not needing to say much, but knowing we have each other. Someone to text whenever I want during breaks at work and feeling connected, yet not overwhelmed. Might sound boring, but I don’t need much more anymore. Heh

I’m getting old, yo!  Tongue
Such is life.
"Hipster is what happens when young hot people do what old ladies do." -Exian
RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
(January 18, 2018 at 6:20 pm)J a c k Wrote:
(January 18, 2018 at 5:57 pm)Tizheruk Wrote: Oh it takes some balance no denial . Especially with one of my lovers needing extra help . But at the end of the day when the three (or how many others have joined us that evening ) are laying around the fire . I can't see love any other way.  Smile

Good for you  Heart  Smile
I’m slowly becoming more and more vanilla, though. I’d be happy with one person to come home to and lay next to as we each do our own thing not needing to say much, but knowing we have each other. Someone to text whenever I want during breaks at work and feeling connected, yet not overwhelmed. Might sound boring, but I don’t need much more anymore. Heh

I’m getting old, yo!  Tongue
Such is life.

Sounds like heaven.

I don't think I'd even want to live with a future partner anymore. I like my alone time too much.

Of course living with a partner would be fine if they allowed me to pretend they didn't exist 50% of the time Tongue
RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
Haha, monogamy isn't boring. It might be boring for people who are polyamorous, but monogamy is just fine.

For me, polyamory is waaaaaay too complicated. The heightened potential for disease (condoms aren't 100% effective y'all. Herpes don't hide behind latex.) is more than enough to steer me away from it. On top of that, there's finding people with the same kinks as you, and sometimes finding out they're just as fucking jealous as monogamous people, so there goes that. Then, there's making sure a bunch of people are fulfilled at once. Oh, and texting from that many people? My best friend has an alternative lifestyle and it's fucking obnoxious how much she's texting. For real, wanna punch her in the tit. She'd like it, though.
RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
(January 18, 2018 at 6:29 pm)Shell B Wrote: Haha, monogamy isn't boring. It might be boring for people who are polyamorous, but monogamy is just fine.

For me, polyamory is waaaaaay too complicated. The heightened potential for disease (condoms aren't 100% effective y'all. Herpes don't hide behind latex.) is more than enough to steer me away from it. On top of that, there's finding people with the same kinks as you, and sometimes finding out they're just as fucking jealous as monogamous people, so there goes that. Then, there's making sure a bunch of people are fulfilled at once. Oh, and texting from that many people? My best friend has an alternative lifestyle and it's fucking obnoxious how much she's texting. For real, wanna punch her in the tit. She'd like it, though.

Fucking hell your posts are especially delicious today, Shell.

@ Tibs I'm 100% not coming onto your wife. She can put the mace on hold!

In case it wasn't obvious... I am not actually being sexual at all. "Your posts are especially delicious today" just meant "I'm enjoying your posts even more than I normally do today!"! Tongue
RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
(January 18, 2018 at 5:57 pm)Tizheruk Wrote: Oh it takes some balance no denial . Especially with one of my lovers needing extra help . But at the end of the day when the three (or how many others have joined us that evening ) are laying around the fire . I can't see love any other way.  Smile

Sounds wonderful!

My wife and I are in a poly situation: she has a LDR and I currently am with nobody but her. The long distance aspect definitely reduces the time factor and juggling aspect for her. Of course, there is the planning aspect of how/when to get together. Smile

Me, I'm open to new relationships, but haven't found anyone who wants to go there that I am interested in being with that way. *shrug* De facto monogamy for me, I guess.

And no, definitely not boring.
RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
(January 18, 2018 at 6:29 pm)Shell B Wrote: Haha, monogamy isn't boring. It might be boring for people who are polyamorous, but monogamy is just fine.

For me, polyamory is waaaaaay too complicated. The heightened potential for disease (condoms aren't 100% effective y'all. Herpes don't hide behind latex.) is more than enough to steer me away from it. On top of that, there's finding people with the same kinks as you, and sometimes finding out they're just as fucking jealous as monogamous people, so there goes that. Then, there's making sure a bunch of people are fulfilled at once. Oh, and texting from that many people? My best friend has an alternative lifestyle and it's fucking obnoxious how much she's texting. For real, wanna punch her in the tit. She'd like it, though.

Ain’t nobody got time fo dat!  Cool
With age, I’ve learned to love simplicity. I’m a momma, I work full time, and I’m impatient. Adding stress would be ridonculous. Eff. At this point, I wouldn’t even mind being perpetually single, although having a sweet and quiet partner would be nice lol
"Hipster is what happens when young hot people do what old ladies do." -Exian
RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
(January 18, 2018 at 6:01 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: Just pure curiosity, is polyamory for you just you and multiple women? Or are there more men in the mix as well?

It's a mix . Afterall i know i can't always satisfy them . So they pursue other lovers .  Smile
Seek strength, not to be greater than my brother, but to fight my greatest enemy -- myself.

Inuit Proverb

RE: Aziz Ansari Doesn't Pick Up On "Non-Verbal Cues" and Gets Treated Like A Rapist
You didn't need to explain yourself, Hams. I'm 100% sure I don't have to worry about you coming on to me. I'm sure Tibs doesn't give that a second thought, either. Thanks for liking my postages.

OMG, why the fuck can't I find the Welshly Arms hotel hot tub skit on youtube? Godfuckingdamnit.



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