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RE: Find out how much you're getting screwed...
December 27, 2017 at 4:45 pm
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$1,750, but it doesn't ask about non-child dependents. Two of those at $500 each takes it to $2,750. 
(December 23, 2017 at 12:14 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: (December 23, 2017 at 10:25 am)Rev. Rye Wrote: I meant that I hope your husband’s never reacted to “not in the mood” by doing anything worse than begging you until you say “okay.” Hopefully, he’s never resorted to physical force on you (nor you him).
Are you serious???
Lol, well if I need to say it, NO.
...Mr CL has never "physically forced himself" on me. Neither would he ever. Neither is that even close to morally permissable. Holy crap lol. And even "begging until the person gives in" isn't right either.
Yall draw some funny conclusions sometimes, sheesh, were not morally bankrupt monsters, you know lol.
What I said is that in catholicism its not right for a spouse to deny the other of sex for no other reason other than simply bc they are not feeling horny at the moment. Its an encouragement for the "not in the mood" spouse to try harder for the sake of their spouse and a healthy sex life.... rather than just being like "eh, dont really feel like it." Otherwise you can have a situation (that many people have) where the marriage is sexless and one spouse is deprived because the other one refuses to have sex with them for no good reason. And thats not right. That does NOT mean the other spouse has a right to pressure them in any way, much less to force themselves physically!
It's like my friend who was crying to me the other day saying her husband never has sex with her. In catholicism, it wouldnt be right for him to do that unless he has legitimate reason to. But of course it would be even worse for her to react to that by physically forcing him.
Does that make sense?
Yes. Same thing with us. If I want some and she doesn't, 95% of the time she'll do the starfish routine at the least.
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RE: Find out how much you're getting screwed...
December 27, 2017 at 6:36 pm
(December 26, 2017 at 10:12 am)Jehanne Wrote: (December 26, 2017 at 6:40 am)Gawdzilla Sama Wrote: I don't pay taxes.
Sales tax? Property?
We're talking income tax here.
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RE: Find out how much you're getting screwed...
April 7, 2018 at 9:23 am
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(December 23, 2017 at 12:14 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: (December 23, 2017 at 10:25 am)Rev. Rye Wrote: I meant that I hope your husband’s never reacted to “not in the mood” by doing anything worse than begging you until you say “okay.” Hopefully, he’s never resorted to physical force on you (nor you him).
Are you serious???
Lol, well if I need to say it, NO.
...Mr CL has never "physically forced himself" on me. Neither would he ever. Neither is that even close to morally permissable. Holy crap lol. And even "begging until the person gives in" isn't right either.
Yall draw some funny conclusions sometimes, sheesh, were not morally bankrupt monsters, you know lol.
What I said is that in catholicism its not right for a spouse to deny the other of sex for no other reason other than simply bc they are not feeling horny at the moment. Its an encouragement for the "not in the mood" spouse to try harder for the sake of their spouse and a healthy sex life.... rather than just being like "eh, dont really feel like it." Otherwise you can have a situation (that many people have) where the marriage is sexless and one spouse is deprived because the other one refuses to have sex with them for no good reason. And thats not right. That does NOT mean the other spouse has a right to pressure them in any way, much less to force themselves physically!
It's like my friend who was crying to me the other day saying her husband never has sex with her. In catholicism, it wouldnt be right for him to do that unless he has legitimate reason to. But of course it would be even worse for her to react to that by physically forcing him.
Does that make sense?
I know this old but I just wanted to say I 100% agree with what you wrote here. A healthy, fulfilling, loving marriage requires work. It’s not a passive thing. It’s not supposed to be easy. It’s not about each person going about their selfish whims. Giving something to your spouse because they’re communicating a need for intimacy can be very rewarding, because it goes beyond just, “I’m horny, so yeah, let’s have sex.” It’s about being selfless and actively loving the other person in a way that they need, even if that particular way is not high on your list of immediate desires at the moment. There is nothing depraved about that, lol. It’s called equal partnership.
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April 7, 2018 at 10:04 am
The mood killer is when one of them says "alright already, lets get this over with".
Being told you're delusional does not necessarily mean you're mental.
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April 7, 2018 at 3:10 pm
(April 7, 2018 at 10:04 am)mh.brewer Wrote: The mood killer is when one of them says "alright already, lets get this over with".
Speak for yourself. When the wife says I'm not really in the mood, you can have a quick DS, or Aunt Flo arrived, you can have an h jibber it doesn't kill my mood at all.
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RE: Find out how much you're getting screwed...
April 7, 2018 at 3:41 pm
When I'm on my period we just have sex in the shower
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RE: Find out how much you're getting screwed...
April 7, 2018 at 3:45 pm
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(April 7, 2018 at 3:41 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: When I'm on my period we just have sex in the shower
It's always interesting opening a thread and immediately going to the last post with no context.
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RE: Find out how much you're getting screwed...
April 7, 2018 at 3:54 pm
(April 7, 2018 at 3:41 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: When I'm on my period we just have sex in the shower
One thing they never tell you about with shower sex, is the blood pressure drop that can happen afterwards. There should be a PSA on that somewhere.
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RE: Find out how much you're getting screwed...
April 7, 2018 at 4:28 pm
(April 7, 2018 at 3:41 pm)Catholic_Lady Wrote: When I'm on my period we just have sex in the shower
More to the point, my tax refund is down by 2K compared to last year! With 5 kiddos, we really got screwed by the "family values" party.
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RE: Find out how much you're getting screwed...
April 7, 2018 at 6:25 pm
New tax plan had nothing to do with this year's refund.
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