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Why hate Athiest?
RE: Why hate Athiest?
(March 14, 2013 at 2:46 am)Esquilax Wrote:
(March 13, 2013 at 10:03 am)jstrodel Wrote: Why are you so quick to defend drugs?

Luckie's defending personal responsibility, you moron.

No, she isn't. Addictive behaviors are not reducible solely to personal choices. It is a medical fact that drugs are addictive. I would never place the blame for my actions on anyone else but myself, but to fail to recognize the fact that drugs affect your brain and decision making directly is a serious problem.

What Luckie said is something that no doctor in America would ever say. She did not say that people have personal responsibility. She repeated a common drug addict lie that "drugs aren't responsible for peoples problems, people are".

The confusion that centers around the dual roles that drug use and the role of personal decisions is not something you will see many medicals doctors talking about. It is what you will see enlightened 18 year olds on erowid arguing back and forth about, as well as crackheads, and the people in between. Drugs are addictive, period.

There is no debating this. Drugs affect the brain directly, why not just stop in your tracks and accept that both the physical composition of drugs and their relationship to neurochemistry AND individual behavior play a role in addiction and be an adult instead of living in the fantasy world of the super-smart internet exotic psychedelic user who knows everything and is one step ahead of the medical community.
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RE: Why hate Athiest?
(March 14, 2013 at 10:15 pm)jstrodel Wrote: It is a medical fact that drugs are addictive.
Which ones? You mean like those really nasty tasting antibiotics?
(March 14, 2013 at 10:15 pm)jstrodel Wrote: There is no debating this. Drugs affect the brain directly, why not just stop in your tracks and accept that both the physical composition of drugs and their relationship to neurochemistry AND individual behavior play a role in addiction and be an adult instead of living in the fantasy world of the super-smart internet exotic psychedelic user who knows everything and is one step ahead of the medical community.

Let's see what the medical communtiy has to say about this:
(By the way, have you ever heard of medical Marijuana?)
Maijuana
Meth
Heroin
Cocaine

Now, before your moralistic head explodes, I didn't include hard drugs as a means of defending them. Quite the opposite. I intend to contrast their obvious dangers with the more subtle and managable risks of marajuana. It still comes down to responsibility because, while hard drugs are addicting, you shouldn't be taking them in the first place.
(I'm sorry if some bad friends of yours got you into drugs, but don't blame atheism...)
John Adams Wrote:The Government of the United States of America is not, in any sense, founded on the Christian religion.
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RE: Why hate Athiest?
Quote:I have discipled many people on addiction and tried to help them get their lives together, including people that have abused and sold MDMA (the last person that I discipled is now in jail for trying to steal oxycontin).

Did your discipleship include god as an answer to addiction? Just what is it you're counseling in your discipline?

Quote:What have you done for drug addicts? Do you share your pet ideas about addiction at AA meetings or at rehabs? You know what they would tell you there, right? You know what doctors who specialized in addiction would say, right?

In answer to your question: Do I go to AA meetings? Nope. Not worth the time, honestly. But that's my opinion on the subject based on their statistics of viability. I have never known an alcoholic who actually benefited from AA for more than a short period of time, and yes I've known quite a few. The book is nice, the 12 steps (I own it), are good proponent steps for reconciling their lives. But considering the dropout rate is staggering, I'd say it's ineffective. You know what's going to help these people kick their addiction? A detox mixed with counseling. That works. Detox centers cost money, and counseling is unattainable for most.




As for fighting drugs, I feel the same thing is needed for addicts. You're talking about addicts, I was talking about recreational users such as Becca.
But since you want to talk about addiction, lets do.

Have you ever thought it was strange that some people can just drop the drug one day and never touch it while others spend their entire lives bouncing back and forth into it? What's the answer in the difference? It's resolve. Not so much the resolve itself, but the individuals' internal resolution to whatever reasons were keeping them in the weakened state that is addiction. You put words into my mouth as to what I would say to a drug addict about addiction. I'm not saying, "be stronger than the drug." I'm saying "face the reasons why you need the drug and move the fuck on."

Incidentally, I have helped drug addicts kick seriously addictive substances. I don't go out looking for addicts, since I spend most of my time fighting my own body for survival but when they end up in my life I don't go talk to them harshly or nicely. I do shit.

Example: Last year my best friend from childhood confided in me that she was on meth, that her live in husband had gotten her into it but she just keeps doing it and not to tell him she was smoking it (while I was there). They have a daughter, so I not only called her mom and took any question in her families' mind as to whether there needed to be an intervention: I also called CPS on my one and only childhood friend who asked her for a UA and gave the intervention teeth. Nowadays her daughter is doing good, her live in husband is happy beyond words that I did what he couldn't since he felt guilt at getting her into that world in the first place, he's proposed to her, she's going to college, and she spent some extensive amounts of time unloading on a volunteer counselor. What's more she did have to go detox. Now she's healthy, happy, and has a future.
She knows what I did for her, even though I've never said a single word to her harsh or not. She calls me to let me know how she's doing, and tells me she loves me. She's thankful beyond words that her family cared enough to intervene like that.

Another example, my neighbor asked me if I'd shoot him up with heroin one night because he'd broken both his risks and was in pain. I refused, and got his last name from a prescription bottle on his table and looked up his dad whom I knew from conversation was a physician. I called the father who said sa la vie call mom. I called mom and again gave her unequivocal proof that she needed to intervene for her sons well-being. I told her if she keeps paying his rent she's going to love him to death. I was not harsh but I was serious.
I didn't go to my neighbor and say at any point, "drugs are bad or you're stronger than the drug." I did give his mom the tools she needed, the inside info she needed, to get him help and suggested holding her paying of his rent hostage for his well being. I told her that he might choose homelessness for the drug but it wouldn't be for long; I knew the guy, he can't survive five minutes on his own. She took my advice, now he's a million times better. He went to a detox as they could afford it, and he had no choice really. Now he's happy healthy and texts me or calls me to tell me how well he's doing, that he's using his pharmaceutical degree to get a job rather than drug himself up.

Now, I'm not a drug warrior either. I just do the hard shit for people and their families. I counsel them on how to do the intervention, I offer my services, I show them that their son/daughter is just in need of help and to overcome whatever barriers in their relationship that the drug has built up. I explain to them that things said and done on the drug is not who those people are inside, it's just the chemical affecting how they act and think. That's the mindset of an addict.

That's why I think it's a little self serving of you to call Becca evil for saying she's going to do E this weekend. She isn't advertising E as the best fucking thing ever, she's just saying she's gonna have a good time. If she said, hey I'm gettin drunk camping this weekend, we wouldn't be having this conversation.
She isn't to be blamed for people and their decisions. Nor are their decisions going to be made based on what some random person online says. Their decisions are made in their heads, the risks are weighed, addiction is a CHOICE, and the reasons they do what they do were there long ago. Choosing not to deal with those issues is a choice, too.

Quote:I am against drugs because I almost lost my life to them. It is absolutely evil for anyone to simultaneously teach a belief system that severely undermines morality (I would say, fatally) and at the same time have casual discussions about drug use.

I re-iterate my point that recreational use of a drug and saying you're doing it does not make one evil, and I certainly don't submit to your belief that there's a 'force for evil' that she subscribes to.

Yeah. Drugs are bad, Mmmk. Doesn't change the fact that they'll be used, so hushing the whole subject is only going to do more harm than good. In my opinion, blaming drug use itself for addiction is misleading.

And no, not everyone who does a drug goes and does more. Not everyone does drugs more than a couple times a year. It can and is done regularly.

From what I can understand you are in that group of people who ended up making drugs their lives, got caught, and luckily cleaned yourself up. There's alot of these people but I guarantee the reason they are the way they are is not because they read a forum post by some girl named Becca who was 'gettin fucked up' this weekend.

For the rest of people and granted there's alot: in the big scheme of things they know goddamn well that if someone says, "lets get drunk this weekend," that if they drink that weekend and every night that week, they're an alcoholic and that they're not just doing it recreation-ally.

I don't understand your point. People know intently what they are doing, and should be responsible for their actions.
Addiction should be brought into the light, but that doesn't mean you have to suppress the rest of the world at the same time just because some people misuse the substances available.

Educate about how misuse becomes abuse, if that's your standpoint. That's mine, anyways.

As for the lifers who live drugs, give them a way out. Don't tell them to 'be clean' and then throw them back into a dirty fucking garbage can. Don't tell them "god can help you overcome' then throw them back into a dirty fucking garbage can. And certainly don't tell them "fuck you" or "you'll never be arrested do what you want you'll never overdose or be pimped out. That will not work. Just sayinTongue
Review with them how they ended up in that garbage can, figure out why they felt they deserved the garbage can, and tell them to get the fuck out of the garbage can and give them tools to do so.

Quote:It is obviously both. You are very eager to place all the blame on people.

I'm eager for people to take responsibility for their actions is all. And yes, I am whole heartedly against blaming all this evil on some unseen evil force for bad that has it out for humans and uses their weaknesses to self-detonate the world.
If people don't want to change that's their choice and I think it's only fair that they shouldn't drag others down with them. I give everything I have to help those who want out, out. No matter how dirty I feel in being a 'snitch' or doing whats 'hard'.

Quote:Why are you so quick to defend drugs?


I'm not. I'm against much needed energy like yours being wasted.

Quote:Telling people "you can use drugs, you just have to be stronger than the drugs" is just about the stupidiest thing that you can say. You cannot even demonstrate its veracity with an anecdote from your own life.

If you are so concerned about drug use, why don't you volunteer helping people that lives have been destroyed by drug use? Why don't you submit your pet ideas to them, see what they have to say. Maybe you could publish your theories about addiction in academic journals of medecine. As a matter of fact, why not come up with some theories about how people should do neuro-surgery. Maybe your pet ideas can help people [sarcasm].



You made up my standpoint, please re-review

Quote:There are many social problems that are important and demand an answer, however, at the end of the day, that does not justify drug use.

Agreed.

Quote:What Luckie said is something that no doctor in America would ever say. She did not say that people have personal responsibility. She repeated a common drug addict lie that "drugs aren't responsible for peoples problems, people are".

Actually, I had a pain doctor tell me that I'd get off fentanyl whenever I felt I was ready to. He even went so far to say when I asked how long I'd be on it, that people are on it until they feel they don't need it, even after the pain goes away.
Then he offered me something called digoxin and gave me a referral to the clinic which would take care of me for life, if I wanted. I didn't go, I didn't want.
Quote:The confusion that centers around the dual roles that drug use and the role of personal decisions is not something you will see many medicals doctors talking about. It is what you will see enlightened 18 year olds on erowid arguing back and forth about, as well as crackheads, and the people in between. Drugs are addictive, period.
Again, not all drugs are addictive, strodel. Not physically. And if it's addictive mentally thats the persons fault, not the drugs. And my point still stands that a person like that can become addicted to sniffing baby powder or something. It does matter what their addiction is because some addictive substances like crack (which is physically addictive), will ruin your life.
My assertion is that a blanket "drugs are bad you are bad" approach isn't going to do shit, and hasn't done shit thus far. My assertion is to review what is and isn't chemically addictive, educate on proper use, provide proper care and identify those who are at risk and treat them before addictions are attained, and provide proper social and economical support services that target the real matters. Drugs are bad MMmmk.org signs all over the city for instance, aren't going to do shit. Providing free counseling and drug education in the community however, will.

Quote:There is no debating this. Drugs affect the brain directly, why not just stop in your tracks and accept that both the physical composition of drugs and their relationship to neurochemistry AND individual behavior play a role in addiction and be an adult instead of living in the fantasy world of the super-smart internet exotic psychedelic user who knows everything and is one step ahead of the medical community.

If your assertion is that all substances including alcohol should be banned, I am split on the matter. People are going to do what they want no matter what, you of all people should know that. In a perfect world we'd all be fuckin happy and healthy, carefree and eternal. But it's not a perfect world and again, you of all people should know that too. After all, you believe your deity made this system.
I disagree with you still on the harmfulness of recreational use in non-addictive chemical agents, and still feel you were being self serving by denegrading Becca for her (non propoganda) assertion.
If I were to create self aware beings knowing fully what they would do in their lifetimes, I sure wouldn't create a HELL for the majority of them to live in infinitely! That's not Love, that's sadistic. Therefore a truly loving god does not exist!

Quote:The sin is against an infinite being (God) unforgiven infinitely, therefore the punishment is infinite.

Dead wrong.  The actions of a finite being measured against an infinite one are infinitesimal and therefore merit infinitesimal punishment.

Quote:Some people deserve hell.

I say again:  No exceptions.  Punishment should be equal to the crime, not in excess of it.  As soon as the punishment is greater than the crime, the punisher is in the wrong.

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RE: Why hate Athiest?
So I noticed strodel gave me kudos on my statement on never having even smoked pot. I'd like to qualify this statement.

As I stated in the "smoking" thread - I have a smoke allergy. I cannot abide the smoke of cigarettes, cigars, pipes, incense...even bonfires out in the open will tax me. At first I'm "okay". Later in the night, if I'm lucky, it'll just be hard to breathe - possibly alleviated with an inhaler. If I'm not, my sinuses will start getting affected, turning into a sinus headache that can explode into a migraine. The problem seems to be getting worse as I get older (I'm about to turn 28) but I've had the sensitivity since I was 15. I selfishly can't go against states forcing public places to be smoke free, or restaurants, because now I can go to the bars with my friends and not spend the entire next day either suffering, or catatonic in bed.

So no, I haven't smoked pot. However, at the suggestion of others I'm quite willing to try it vaporized. Not in brownies though - I don't fuck up chocolate. Haven't gotten around to it though - they do randomized drug screenings here at work, and I'm lazy.

I feel the same about several other drugs, except with those I was more worried about someone being around that I could trust in case I had a bad trip. My boyfriend is the only one I would trust, and we've only been living together for two months now. There hasn't been time to dick around that way with all the life changes we've gone through (job changes, moving, visiting from parents, blah blah.)

I kudos'd luckie because that's the position both David and I hold. Personal responsibility comes first. Keeping nicotine and alcohol legal and marijuana (and several other drugs) illegal is a massive state of hypocrisy that only the government could come up with. Namely because they earn massive quantities of money off of the first two, provided everyone follows the laws laid down about their consumption.

I am very sorry about the things any of you have gone through, although I find it hilarious that all of the rationalist atheist ex-druggies I've talked to on here (and please let me know if I'm misremembering) have discussed addiction in terms of personal responsibility, freedom to choose, and discussion about the underlying cause of taking the drug to begin with, and all of the Christian ex-druggies treat the drug like it's a magically imbued source of evil...sort of the way hippies talk about non-organic food, or fundies treat Ouija boards.

Personal opinion: I find AA to be reprehensible in their values, but much as I acknowledge that some people need religion to remind them to be good the way parents must remind children, I realize some people need AA to function without their addiction. Perhaps it's the sense of community which church also provides. And then there's my ex-boyfriend's family. Failed church-goers and failed AA-attendees, many of them. Saturday night alcoholics...bible-thumping Sunday baptists - if they're not too hungover. Perhaps if someone had preached personal responsibility at them instead of Jesus, a few of them would be doing better.
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RE: Why hate Athiest?
(March 14, 2013 at 10:35 pm)Darkstar Wrote:
(March 14, 2013 at 10:15 pm)jstrodel Wrote: It is a medical fact that drugs are addictive.
Which ones? You mean like those really nasty tasting antibiotics?
(March 14, 2013 at 10:15 pm)jstrodel Wrote: There is no debating this. Drugs affect the brain directly, why not just stop in your tracks and accept that both the physical composition of drugs and their relationship to neurochemistry AND individual behavior play a role in addiction and be an adult instead of living in the fantasy world of the super-smart internet exotic psychedelic user who knows everything and is one step ahead of the medical community.

Let's see what the medical communtiy has to say about this:
(By the way, have you ever heard of medical Marijuana?)
Maijuana
Meth
Heroin
Cocaine

Now, before your moralistic head explodes, I didn't include hard drugs as a means of defending them. Quite the opposite. I intend to contrast their obvious dangers with the more subtle and managable risks of marajuana. It still comes down to responsibility because, while hard drugs are addicting, you shouldn't be taking them in the first place.

Are you saying that you have the same authority to define the dangers of drugs to people as a psychiatrist? I think you are extremely proud. Look at what the entry you posted says: "Cocaine is a very addictive drug, and some people easily lose control over its use"

What makes you think you are at the same level as a doctor? Do you really think you are that smart? You said you are 18 years old. Why do you believe you know as much about medicine as a doctor? The medical community says those drugs are very very dangerous.

Yes, I have heard of medical marijuana. Look, because something is used as medicine does not mean it is dangerous. Look at benzodiazepines, those are extremely addictive drugs. They are legal. So is OxyContin. So is OxyMorphone (Numorphone) and HydroMorphone (Diluadid) and Fentanyl (Duragesic). All of those drugs are more powerful than heroin.

I could care less whether drugs are illegal or legal. You think I am posting here because I am trying to get you to vote for my candidate? I am posting here because I care about you. I love you all. There are already many, many drugs schedule II drugs that are much more dangerous than illegal drugs. I know a whole lot of other stuff about this that I just don't feel comfortable posting, because I don't want to get people deeper into it. Suffice to say, the issue of whether drugs are illegal or legal has little bearing on whether drug abuse is dangerous.


If you take drugs to get high, it is very dangerous. Ask your doctor if you should take ecstasy before you do it. How many of the people that take ecstasy talk to their doctor about it first? Probably very few.




Quote:(I'm sorry if some bad friends of yours got you into drugs, but don't blame atheism...)

Your skeptical (if skeptical is the right word, you trust yourself an awful lot) epistemology that refuses to acknowledge the harmful effects of drugs and your lack of concern for established medical authorities shows that atheism may indeed be responsible for the way that you see drugs, which is different from how other groups of people see drugs.
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RE: Why hate Athiest?
Atheism has fuck all to do with drugs, mate, unless losing one's faith causes one to go into a depressive slide that includes drugs. I know way too many drug-taking theists though. Try again.
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RE: Why hate Athiest?
Quote:Again, not all drugs are addictive, strodel. Not physically. And if it's addictive mentally thats the persons fault, not the drugs. And my point still stands that a person like that can become addicted to sniffing baby powder or something. It does matter what their addiction is because some addictive substances like crack (which is physically addictive), will ruin your life.

You don't know what you are talking about and I'm not going to debate it further. This statement is factually inaccurate, if you were a medical doctor and you told people this, you would lose your license. You don't know anything about addiction. Do you know what a dendrite is? Of course you don't, you have stupid junkie wisdom and you share it as if that makes you a doctor. You are harming others with your ignorance of science and addiction.

What you just said is pure poison. Psychologically addictive drugs are very dangerous. It most definitely is not all the users fault.

I'm not going to debate it further. Topics like this "are psychologically addictive drugs really dangerous or is the medical community a big conspiracy" are not things that people should debate intellectually. If you are an honest person, go talk to your doctor, ask him if "psychologically addictive drugs are just as dangerous as baby powder". See what he says.
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RE: Why hate Athiest?
(March 15, 2013 at 10:33 am)jstrodel Wrote: If you are an honest person, go talk to your doctor, ask him if "psychologically addictive drugs are just as dangerous as baby powder". See what he says.

A cool doctor might say "It depends what you do with them."
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RE: Why hate Athiest?
(March 15, 2013 at 8:34 am)thesummerqueen Wrote: I am very sorry about the things any of you have gone through, although I find it hilarious that all of the rationalist atheist ex-druggies I've talked to on here (and please let me know if I'm misremembering) have discussed addiction in terms of personal responsibility, freedom to choose, and discussion about the underlying cause of taking the drug to begin with, and all of the Christian ex-druggies treat the drug like it's a magically imbued source of evil...sort of the way hippies talk about non-organic food, or fundies treat Ouija boards.

I could go on and on about the effects of each drugs, the positive medicinal effects, balance positive and negatives. Obviously many pharmaceuticals are psychoactive drugs. This is the thing, as soon as you start talking about those things, it makes it more likely that people will use the drugs. When I talk about drugs, I want people to hear what I say and not use them.

Obviously there are many factors underneath a decision to use drugs. But people can stop using drugs. It is both. But there is nothing good about abusing drugs.

Why can't people make up their minds that they feel they have responsibility for those around them, to love them and care for them, like a parent loves his children? What is wrong about caring about people? Drugs are bad.
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RE: Why hate Athiest?
(February 26, 2013 at 12:52 pm)ChadWooters Wrote:
(February 25, 2013 at 11:59 am)AtlasS Wrote: Sometimes it's the stereotypical idea about atheists being not respectful & actually insult religious people & mock them.
Stereotypically? Really? Insults and mockery of religion is the norm, rather than the exception on these forums. You cannot say the same for believers, who are normally respectful and gracious, and insulting comments are the exceptions.

It's been my experience on this forum that theist posters run as rude as atheist posters. Perhaps you think the theist posters are more gracious because they are less likely to use 'bad' words, but respectful and gracious are terms I'd apply to only a minority of theist posters. I do include you in that minority, but I think your bias is showing. I could make a very long post quoting hateful things said by theists on this forum and only scratch the surface. There wasn't even a whole page between your post and jstrodel showing up and saying things like 'atheists are commonly liars'.
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