The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend

[Mermaid]

Drama, drama, drama. She's scummy and duplicitous and he is immature.

Hold the fuck up. How is he the 'immature' one? 

All he's done is named and shamed her in a pretty fantastic fucking manner. He's actually been very mature about it if you ask me. How many people would fly off the handle like a nutter if they found out their partner was cheating? 

Is the 'mature' response to finding out your girlfriend has been cheating on you to just say 'hi love, I found out you're cheating, but it's perfectly okay, let's just civilly break up even though you've took me for an absolute mug for the last how many months'. 

In my mind he's allowed a little bit of payback, and he's allowed to call her out on her cheating. Let's keep shit in perspective, she's been fucking another man while she's been stringing him along. All he did was post a video. 

Smashing up her shit and/or beating up the guy she was sleeping with would have been immature. What he did wasn't IMO. He handled the situation like a fucking boss.

We disagree fundamentally. I do not think he handled it like a boss, I think he handled it like a 5 year old. Getting revenge wasn't the adult thing to do here. Make no mistake, she was the party that was in the wrong here. He most definitely did not take the high road, however. A grownup would have confronted her immediately instead of pretending all was well, and left without the flair and drama. What she did is not OK at all, and in no way did I say or imply that it was.

Sure, he's allowed whatever he chooses, that's his choice. I do not think he handled it well at all, however. He stooped her her level. I can see why they were together in the first place.