RE: The best way to dump your cheating girlfriend
November 29, 2015 at 9:41 am
(This post was last modified: November 29, 2015 at 9:42 am by Longhorn.)
(November 29, 2015 at 12:31 am)Judi Lynn Wrote: Clearly, he was hurt over her actions. He just found out three weeks prior to that video that she cheated on him. Would anyone have preferred he sink into a deep, dark depression and sat on the couch in self pity while eating chocolate or ice cream? No. Honestly, he did what HE thought needed to be done. Good on him for that.
We all deal with bad stuff in our own way. Some of it is destructive, some constructive. Clearly, he was covering his own ass by not destroying everything in sight.
Bottom line: She set him up for hurt when she cheated. He set her up for a non-physical bitch slapping by getting her hopes up about a vacation and then let her have it at the end, via a card. If he would have beat the shit out of her, the outrage would have been all over the place. Instead, he gave her her just desserts. She got what was coming to her. Instead of being violent (towards her or her stuff), he chose to creatively leave. Perhaps this will serve as a lesson to never do it to anyone else in the future. Outrageous things like this tend to leave quite an impression on a person and perhaps he gets to save the next guy in her life the shame of having to go through this. Perhaps she will now think twice before cheating on someone else.
And perhaps now, having been shamed publicly for thousands of people to see, she will go into a deep dark depression. He didn't need to post his revenge online to save his mental health.
They're both shit people and unjustified in their actions.