If femininity and masculinity were nothing but a physical, material, outer-layer thing only, then why would some men "feel" like a woman and some women "feel" like a man? If those 2 things weren't distinctive at all there would be nothing to feel. They could just be whoever they are and be perfectly happy with it. But we all know that is not the case.
"Of course, everyone will claim they respect someone who tries to speak the truth, but in reality, this is a rare quality. Most respect those who speak truths they agree with, and their respect for the speaking only extends as far as their realm of personal agreement. It is less common, almost to the point of becoming a saintly virtue, that someone truly respects and loves the truth seeker, even when their conclusions differ wildly."
-walsh
-walsh