(January 30, 2016 at 11:52 am)Catholic_Lady Wrote: I was talking about it through their perspective. If THEY believe sex is for marriage, then it would be a moment of weakness and temptation on their part for them to say yes to it, if they really feel they should be saying no but are having a hard time resisting.
It's a good thing you're not a waitress. If a fat girl sat at your table, you'd probably tell her to stop being a weakling, put down the fork and get back on the treadmill...
And you'd probably think you're doing her a kindness. It's not your fault - your religious bigotry, which has been imparted to you since early childhood is what makes you judgmental and controlling. We're all free to make our own choices - and deal with consequences. And as I mentioned - christians deal with guilt and shame pretty well, since they have an imaginary wizard friend, ready to forgive them anything at the drop of a hat.
Also - just because someone believes that "sex is for marriage" doesn't mean they have to continue thinking that. If they like a bit of "strange" - they may do well to accept that personal quirk and learn to live with it, instead of being a hypocrite.
"The fact that a believer is happier than a skeptic is no more to the point than the fact that a drunken man is happier than a sober one." - George Bernard Shaw
