Would you have sex with a Christian fundamentalist?

[Losty]

I feel like some of us are being misunderstood.

I'm trying to stay on my side of the street with this. I feel like I deserve better than to be with someone who doesn't think that fucking me is morally okay. It's not about me "looking out for her," although I'd be lying if I said that had nothing to do with it.

This^^^^

So so very much this.

I don't consider myself egotistical, but I value myself too highly to have sex with someone who considers having sex with me to be a sin.

When I get to a point of having sex with someone, reaching this point means that I trust this person, I care about this person, I know this person trusts and cares about me.
We have to have gotten all of the important stuff out of the way first, I can't exactly get horny if I'm wondering will this person regret having sex with me? or worse will they think me a disgusting whore tomorrow, a wicked seductress who lead them astray? I don't want to have sex with someone who will think badly of me afterwards or worse with someone who will seek to make me feel bad about myself.

For me, sex doesn't need to be about love, it doesn't need to be about anything. It doesn't have to be romantic, or even special. But it must be with someone who values me as a person. It won't ever be with someone who believes I am committing a sin by having sex with them. Not ever. If they're my friend, which I assume they must be or else the idea of having sex with them wouldn't have been considered, then yes it's also about their feelings. Yes, I would care about them enough to encourage them not to make choices they consider to be morally wrong or ones they'll regret tomorrow. But far far more importantly, I respect myself too much to have sex with someone who thinks it is a sin.

If the person is my spouse, in which case it would not be a sin, I've been replaced by an alien clone, please send a rescue team to find me!