I know people who live for other people's happiness and don't value their own needs, and I see that does not just lead to unhappiness of them, but it also troubles the people around them, including me, I don't like to see that. I would want these people to take their own needs seriously. I have tried to help a lot of people like these, but it does lead to any improvement, until they starting valuing their own lives.
And vice versa, I have also noticed that, when some people actually do start taking better care of themselves, it also makes the people around them happier, again including me.
Of course this should not mean that they ignore the needs of other people. But I think people who have empathy will always be internally motivated to help others in need.
And vice versa, I have also noticed that, when some people actually do start taking better care of themselves, it also makes the people around them happier, again including me.
Of course this should not mean that they ignore the needs of other people. But I think people who have empathy will always be internally motivated to help others in need.
