(July 28, 2017 at 4:08 pm)Industrial Lad Wrote: I think you're a cool person and I don't think having difficulty conceiving makes you a "dud." There's so much more to value in a person.
That issue is just a biological thing and in no way affects your value as a person.
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That is a great point. Far to often society sells shallow solutions like "just do it" and say horrible things like "what's your problem, buck it up".
I know my problems are genetic because I see the same behaviors in my two sisters and my older brother and even my cousin. I think it is horrible that far too many people vilify others with problems.
I suffered tremendously as a kid not understanding this. I blamed myself for not fitting in and that caused me horrible self loathing and I made myself a doormat trying to fit in. That was compounded by my my LD, depression and anxiety too.
You have to value yourself first. You will never be happy with others or be happy with what you can get, until you value yourself first. Once you are comfortable in your own skin, you will communicate well better with others and you wont stress the small stuff as much.
But again, as others have said, that is simply my personal point of view. Nobody here can replace an in person face to face professional.
I do wish you well CL.
