RE: Is it normal be a hetro-sexual and having no relationship experience?
March 8, 2018 at 2:56 pm
(March 8, 2018 at 12:52 am)Sterben Wrote: Hello, I'm almost thirty-one and I have yet to be in any type of relationship with the opposite-sex. The strange thing about it is the I primarily do not care that I have no sex-life nor a desire for a partner in life. As well, I find computers and electronics more appealing then woman(not in a sexual way). If you told me, "Hey, Sterben a friend of mine is looking to start dating. She's a nice girl and I think you two have a lot in common. Would you like to join (Your partners name ), and (Your name) for a dinner date?" I would really not want to go, on the grounds of I rather be taking photos of a landscape or a activity I can do by myself.
Getting personal with people bothers me in so many ways, unless I have known them for quite a while and even then I'm still uncomfortable. Does this make a strange or sick person? If so, give a few reasons why.
It's not normal and it is strange, but lots of people live strange lifestyles.
What I would ask is how do you know you're hetrosexual?
Your example doesn't really say much about you because if someone said to me "Hey Paul a friend of mine is looking to start dating, would you like to join me and my partner on a dinner date with my friend?" My reply would probably be "No thanks I'd rather kill myself."
I like dates but I don't like double dates, some people don't like dates at all and just want sex or whatever. But you went straight to taking photos or some sort of solo activity.
I think three important questions would be, how does your attraction to women manifest itself and what ways, if any, do you express it?
What activity if any would you enjoy with a member of the opposite sex?
And a 3rd question which is kind of dependent on what was answered in the 2nd, but if the answer is that you wouldn't enjoy any activity with a member of the opposite sex and you'd always prefer a solo activity, why would you always prefer that? Because of some discrepancy in thrills between the two activities, solo activities giving you more thrills? Or because activities with females gives anxiety?
Are you ready for the fire? We are firemen. WE ARE FIREMEN! The heat doesn’t bother us. We live in the heat. We train in the heat. It tells us that we’re ready, we’re at home, we’re where we’re supposed to be. Flames don’t intimidate us. What do we do? We control the flame. We control them. We move the flames where we want to. And then we extinguish them.
Impersonation is treason.
