Is it normal be a hetro-sexual and having no relationship experience?

[rskovride]

 Having kids is probably where polyamory is going to have a pretty big roadblock.  It's definitely fine for people who don't want kids.  And for many people who don't want kids, it's sort of how things go.  But Joe running off for a date with Helen, while Diane sits at home with the crying baby that just fucked up her body is going to be a tough sell to Diane.

And if you're one of the ladyfolk, and you've got a bit of a shelf date on your desirability, and the future of polyamory is frequently going to be gross random old guys or cats, it's probably not as appealing to skip the permanent partner search.

I disagree but don't want to hijack this thread. We can start a new one if you like.