RE: Is it normal be a hetro-sexual and having no relationship experience?
March 9, 2018 at 10:14 am
(This post was last modified: March 9, 2018 at 10:17 am by henryp.)
I am making broad generalizations. Which is also a delightful pun. I'm also using a lot of qualifiers when I speak. Probably, might, etc... But more important, for my point to make sense, it just has to be the common position, not a universal law. I'm sure polyamory is great for some people in some situations. But you and Aegon were talking about it being much more normalized.
But we clearly have very different views on how older women are viewed, the competitiveness of relationships, the nature of relationships in general, hollywood being a capitalist reflection of the populaces interests, and on and on.
Which is fine. But you're responses so far have been 'nuh-uh.'
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One thing I'll say, and this is true about most things...I don't care. I don't care if polyamory is good or bad. I have no dog in the fight. It's just an intuitive reaction. But I think your notion that the only thing holding people back is the religious conditioning misses out on a lot of aspects of polyamory that are unattractive, and a lot of aspects of monogamy that are attractive. Especially as you age.
But we clearly have very different views on how older women are viewed, the competitiveness of relationships, the nature of relationships in general, hollywood being a capitalist reflection of the populaces interests, and on and on.
Which is fine. But you're responses so far have been 'nuh-uh.'
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One thing I'll say, and this is true about most things...I don't care. I don't care if polyamory is good or bad. I have no dog in the fight. It's just an intuitive reaction. But I think your notion that the only thing holding people back is the religious conditioning misses out on a lot of aspects of polyamory that are unattractive, and a lot of aspects of monogamy that are attractive. Especially as you age.