RE: Should you end the relationship with a person for one big mistake?
March 12, 2019 at 11:27 am
(March 12, 2019 at 11:17 am)Gae Bolga Wrote: At the OPQ.
From the sounds of it...yeah? You obviously cant get over whatever it is you'e talking about..whether or not you should be able to is moot. You're not doing yourself or this other person any favors trying to maintain the relationship while simultaneously maintaining that grudge. Some things are unforgivable, and we all decide for ourselves what things belong in that set.
^^^^^ Thats it right here.
The best one can do in any relationship with someone they have a problem with, is to ask them to stop doing something. If they do, great, if they do not, then it is on you to accept or not accept it.
Ultimately you cant control others, just yourself.
I said before, I have cut ties with friends and even family, not out of any sense of having a grudge, just in that I didn't want their drama in my life.
Not forgiving someone does not mean holding a grudge. It just means you don't want that in your life.
