RE: Should you end the relationship with a person for one big mistake?
March 12, 2019 at 9:18 pm
(March 12, 2019 at 8:46 pm)arewethereyet Wrote: Just an observation...seems the OP has a lot of 'relationship' issues. A lot.
I have to wonder where the issue lies. Is it with the OP or with everyone else they encounter?
Perhaps.
My own track record in relationships is appalling. In my 20's I had a LOT of first dates. I have been rejected by every woman I have loved. There have been three of those. The first when I was 20, the last at 63.
I worked out there was 'something wrong with me' very early. I only found out what what that "something' is 5 years ago; I have Asperger's Syndrome.. That explains a lot a lot , but solves nothing.
Having many relationships can certainly indicate 'issues'. One of which may be becoming repeatedly involved with the same 'type' of person. For me it has been becoming involved with emotionally distant women. That is not my insight. My shrink pointed that out .
I guess we need to work with what we have, perhaps concentrating more on self acceptance, than with finding fault
