Let's say that someone feels tempted to abuse someone else, but at the same time doesn't. Maybe they used to be in an abusive relationship or maybe they didn't. Anyway, the former decides to cut contact with the latter and explains why. But the one who is in danger of being abused cares about the other one and insists that they should continue talking. The one who feels the temptation to abuse would still prefer not to take any risks, so what should be done?
"By simple common sense I don't believe in God, in none"
Charlie Chaplin
Charlie Chaplin