(April 1, 2019 at 6:53 pm)Der/die AtheistIn Wrote:(April 1, 2019 at 6:42 pm)wyzas Wrote: I don't know what to say to you any more. You seem to like being a victim.
Maybe I am guilty of this on some level. I don't do this for attention, it's because I have questions. Mom did a mistake and made me really mad and now I feel tempted to abuse her. She didn't abuse me, the mistake was lack of communication. I believe that because I was wronged I feel like justice needs to be served and that I don't deserve being in such a situation.
I believe that maybe ending the relationship would be the safest option.
As Brian pointed out what I highlighted isn't justice it's revenge. I do find it ironic that your posit a termination of communication in response to a mistake of communication. Most people try and work out their differences and repair communication. I think you're personally far too deeply rooted in your headspace and care far too much about getting what you want right now. If you have your own space exercise some control over that and make some decisions on where you want to be in 3 years, then micro task that stuff. Patience for fruit.
"There ought to be a term that would designate those who actually follow the teachings of Jesus, since the word 'Christian' has been largely divorced from those teachings, and so polluted by fundamentalists that it has come to connote their polar opposite: intolerance, vindictive hatred, and bigotry." -- Philip Stater, Huffington Post
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