Yes, lying is sometimes okay. Living a lie is never ok.
I grasp not wanting to hurt your friend or damage your relationship, but you really shouldn't let it impinge on how you live your own life. You have a right to be who you are. If you go through life claiming false beliefs, I don't think you can ever be happy.
I'd suggest telling your friend - as gently as possible - how you feel.
Good luck.
Boru
I grasp not wanting to hurt your friend or damage your relationship, but you really shouldn't let it impinge on how you live your own life. You have a right to be who you are. If you go through life claiming false beliefs, I don't think you can ever be happy.
I'd suggest telling your friend - as gently as possible - how you feel.
Good luck.
Boru
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