Sexual desire seems to be a curse for men

[The Grand Nudger]

If you're having trouble securing a partner..definitely -don't- mention the thing where you're sure that the best you can offer them, is to endure your time with them. Similarly, if you're having trouble securing a partner, maybe look for a female that -does- desire men? This state of affairs where you're thinking about being with someone who doesn't want you, while you want everyone else, well..obviously..that's not going to be a good relationship, eh? More like the preamble to a divorce or breakup. There are definitely people who find themselves there, and misery loving company, I can see how we might focus on those sorts of dysfunctional relationships when we're lonely...but that's probably just a self pitying coping mechanism.

Don't get me wrong, I'm no relationship guru, and no pickup artist. I'm a serial monogamist that didn't get marriage right the first go round. Sometimes, even when the other person wants you, and you're completely satisfied with them, it still doesn't work out - but it seems like that's a good place to start. I suppose that the awkwardness of the approach is something that won't go away anytime soon. It's always terrifying to really open up to someone, to invite rejection. Makes your heart beat a little faster, and it feels like shit when it doesn't pan out. The good news, my dude..is that when any one female rejects you, there are about four billion more in the world.

Echoing FM above, you may not think that your post was about you, that you're not "getting personal" but ofc you are. You're not describing women-et-al in any of that, you're projecting your disappointments, fears, suspicions, and perceived inadequacies onto them. Another thing you might want to look into, in it's totality, if you're having trouble securing a partner. It's not fun for anybody, not you, not them. Nobody wants that shit. Nobody. It's just no fun.