RE: Black Pill Dating Theory?
August 22, 2023 at 9:31 am
(This post was last modified: August 22, 2023 at 9:42 am by arewethereyet.)
A little aside, but related.
Back in the late 70s before incel was a thing, I met a guy who would probably be considered an incel now but with a twist.
My oldest child's father was one of the best looking guys in the town I moved to in my late teens. I was mesmerized by him. On top of being gorgeous, he was smart, and funny, and a good dancer (LOL). His first real relationship was with a young woman who was cute as could be...tiny, long brown hair, big brown eyes, and also quite fun to be around. He had, by the time I moved to town, married a Farrah Fawcett lookalike who was the life of any party. Through all this he was far from monogamous. He was a hot commodity. I knew I was punching above my weight but approached him when his marriage looked to be falling apart...and he was interested.
I should have known better but damn, damn, damn....it was fun while it lasted.
During the time I was seeing him a guy from there came back from a short stint in the military. I hadn't known him before. He was less attractive than the guy I was seeing and his personality left a lot to be desired. He seemed to have one mission in life and that was to sleep with the same women that the guy I was seeing had had relationships with. He tried to get with the tiny woman and she shut him down pretty quickly. He would show up at Farrah 2.0's house and try to sleep with her. When neither of those worked he came after me. Very stalkish, very creepy. One night he started to scream at me in front of a club where we were all partying - Is he a better man than I am? Then named my last boyfriend and screamed - Is he a better man than I am? This sort of confrontation didn't happen once but a few times till some guys stepped in and urged him to stop it.
It was so weird. He seemed to think he had the 'right' to sleep with the same women that my guy had slept with. The thought of him still creeps me out.
Back in the late 70s before incel was a thing, I met a guy who would probably be considered an incel now but with a twist.
My oldest child's father was one of the best looking guys in the town I moved to in my late teens. I was mesmerized by him. On top of being gorgeous, he was smart, and funny, and a good dancer (LOL). His first real relationship was with a young woman who was cute as could be...tiny, long brown hair, big brown eyes, and also quite fun to be around. He had, by the time I moved to town, married a Farrah Fawcett lookalike who was the life of any party. Through all this he was far from monogamous. He was a hot commodity. I knew I was punching above my weight but approached him when his marriage looked to be falling apart...and he was interested.
I should have known better but damn, damn, damn....it was fun while it lasted.
During the time I was seeing him a guy from there came back from a short stint in the military. I hadn't known him before. He was less attractive than the guy I was seeing and his personality left a lot to be desired. He seemed to have one mission in life and that was to sleep with the same women that the guy I was seeing had had relationships with. He tried to get with the tiny woman and she shut him down pretty quickly. He would show up at Farrah 2.0's house and try to sleep with her. When neither of those worked he came after me. Very stalkish, very creepy. One night he started to scream at me in front of a club where we were all partying - Is he a better man than I am? Then named my last boyfriend and screamed - Is he a better man than I am? This sort of confrontation didn't happen once but a few times till some guys stepped in and urged him to stop it.
It was so weird. He seemed to think he had the 'right' to sleep with the same women that my guy had slept with. The thought of him still creeps me out.