Black Pill Dating Theory?

[GrandizerII]

it's that they want the kind of women the best looking men are having and they want it pretty much on demand because they've seen someone else get it.

I would say it's more that they want the hot type of woman who tends to go for the bad boys or the natural charmers regardless of their looks, but I do agree with most of your post. Incels want to be winners in the dating game but suck at winning, so they get frustrated in an irrational manner, blaming others for their misfortune and therefore not wanting to fix themselves, and also not going for more realistic options.

Also, personality disorders and/or autism possibly at play here as well.