I totally agree.
Since I don't believe freewill exists I don't think anyone is morally culpable for anything.
But in the more colloquial sense I totally agree that if you've given it a genuine fair try for some time and got nowhere, then that's all you can do.
I also agree that there's a fair few incels who are under 18, which is a more complex story than when talking about lonely adults. The trouble there is, as I discovered, if you're an ugly or social inept teenager you will most likely be bullied and traumatised for it. You won't be given any opportunity for normal social development. I think a lot of lonely bitter incel type adults were locked into that mindset by adolescent expereinces and never found a way out. Their whole life went on a different trajectory because of how a few teenage girls treated them when they were vulnerable and naive 14 year olds. Sad.
Since I don't believe freewill exists I don't think anyone is morally culpable for anything.
But in the more colloquial sense I totally agree that if you've given it a genuine fair try for some time and got nowhere, then that's all you can do.
I also agree that there's a fair few incels who are under 18, which is a more complex story than when talking about lonely adults. The trouble there is, as I discovered, if you're an ugly or social inept teenager you will most likely be bullied and traumatised for it. You won't be given any opportunity for normal social development. I think a lot of lonely bitter incel type adults were locked into that mindset by adolescent expereinces and never found a way out. Their whole life went on a different trajectory because of how a few teenage girls treated them when they were vulnerable and naive 14 year olds. Sad.
