Black Pill Dating Theory?

[GrandizerII]

The incel situation isn't simply due to a misfortune with not looking good (many of these self-professed incels I've seen are quite good looking actually) nor mainly because of loneliness. It's disordered thinking, so mainly about personality/neurodevelopment issues. It may be they got rejected a few times, and because of their irrational and egotistical way of thinking, attribute this to women being shitty. It may be they're always going for the "wrong" types of women, and doing "nice" things for them (while secretly expecting sexual favors in return), and then they get rejected/"friendzoned" each time, which builds up the bitterness against women in general. It may even just be a twisted way of seeking validation for themselves by putting themselves out there as incels, just out of spite against women. Maybe women do express interest in them, but they brush it off as them being slutty because these incels want to make the first move. Whatever the case may be, there is a lot of misogyny involved in their way of thinking.

Again, I've seen ugly people in relationships. Clearly, their looks aren't stopping them from being in relationships. Must be something else.

And no, it's not victim blaming because incels aren't victims. Or at least not moreso than anyone else in general.