It took so long because his mother has paid her entire life savings to secure him legal counsel- the best in Nashville. They've been keeping it tied up for months. Also, the Child Protective Services case worker was fired 3 weeks ago for not doing her job (I'm a fucking boss when you piss me off), and the case just got re-opened. She got all giggly talking about him on the phone, like she was just crazy about him.
That leads me to answer your question, mehmet. He is very handsome, and extremely charming, I met him through a mutual friend who was helping me get hooked up with a steady weed man... he was the steady weed man. He begged me for a couple of weeks to go out with him, until I finally broke down and agreed. He took me out to dinner at a romantic bistro downtown, and then stopped traffic to dance with me in the street to the sound of honking angry people. He convinced me he was happily separated from his wife, and I believed him because he was so affectionate with me right in front of his entire family. We dated for 4 months, and then when I found out I was pregnant, he promised he'd stay with me, that we'd get a place together, etc..
We had sex AGAIN that night, and before I left, he told me to call him in the morning. I did call him, but his sister answered and informed me that he had gone to pick up his wife and kids and moved back to Alabama. I didn't hear from him or see him again until our daughter was 9 months old. He told his entire family that we never had sex, and I had to subpoena his DNA. When the judge read the DNA results, there were only 2 not shocked faces in the room, and one of them was his.
Anyway, here we are now. I regret ever seeking him out. I just did it because I didn't know he was THAT horrible, and my daughter, I thought, deserved to know her father.
I think he should be locked up, personally. Lizzy has suffered so much because of all this, I just hope it's resolved quickly for her sake, and she gets to be in the only place she wants to be (with me) very soon.
His high dollar legal council was speechless after I got done today. Then when we left the courtroom, his entourage started shouting that I was a liar in the hall outside the courtroom. They made a big dramatic scene, pretending to have to be held back from kicking my ass. His lawyer said to him "You're going to lose custody if you keep bringing your family that acts like this."
I wanted to say, "He's gonna lose custody anyway!", but I kept my dignity, and walked out smiling, with my head held high. He made a big show of the three rows of friends and family he brought with him. "See how much support I have.", but I explained to the judge that I understood that there was limited seating in the courtroom, and I am perfectly capable of attending court alone, as I am an independent, and fierce foxy female mother bear. It was awesome, and I have been flying high all day, knowing that my daughter is going to be safe very soon, and that he is probably on his best behavior right now.
Thanks to all my AF friends for your words of support!
That leads me to answer your question, mehmet. He is very handsome, and extremely charming, I met him through a mutual friend who was helping me get hooked up with a steady weed man... he was the steady weed man. He begged me for a couple of weeks to go out with him, until I finally broke down and agreed. He took me out to dinner at a romantic bistro downtown, and then stopped traffic to dance with me in the street to the sound of honking angry people. He convinced me he was happily separated from his wife, and I believed him because he was so affectionate with me right in front of his entire family. We dated for 4 months, and then when I found out I was pregnant, he promised he'd stay with me, that we'd get a place together, etc..
We had sex AGAIN that night, and before I left, he told me to call him in the morning. I did call him, but his sister answered and informed me that he had gone to pick up his wife and kids and moved back to Alabama. I didn't hear from him or see him again until our daughter was 9 months old. He told his entire family that we never had sex, and I had to subpoena his DNA. When the judge read the DNA results, there were only 2 not shocked faces in the room, and one of them was his.
Anyway, here we are now. I regret ever seeking him out. I just did it because I didn't know he was THAT horrible, and my daughter, I thought, deserved to know her father.
I think he should be locked up, personally. Lizzy has suffered so much because of all this, I just hope it's resolved quickly for her sake, and she gets to be in the only place she wants to be (with me) very soon.
His high dollar legal council was speechless after I got done today. Then when we left the courtroom, his entourage started shouting that I was a liar in the hall outside the courtroom. They made a big dramatic scene, pretending to have to be held back from kicking my ass. His lawyer said to him "You're going to lose custody if you keep bringing your family that acts like this."
I wanted to say, "He's gonna lose custody anyway!", but I kept my dignity, and walked out smiling, with my head held high. He made a big show of the three rows of friends and family he brought with him. "See how much support I have.", but I explained to the judge that I understood that there was limited seating in the courtroom, and I am perfectly capable of attending court alone, as I am an independent, and fierce foxy female mother bear. It was awesome, and I have been flying high all day, knowing that my daughter is going to be safe very soon, and that he is probably on his best behavior right now.
Thanks to all my AF friends for your words of support!
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