(March 6, 2012 at 6:45 am)kılıç_mehmet Wrote: Well, mothers are like that. Especially when it comes to their sons and grandchildren.
Yeah. Well, as usual, no one is helping me. My mother is a bitch who hung up with me as I was in the middle of telling her what happened in court because "her dog needed her". I hope to raise all my children to be self-sufficient, yet always know they can count on me to be there for them. I think he's had his ass powdered all his life, and always gotten things his way, and I feel privileged to be the one giving him his rude awakening.
Quote:I don't know what a steady weed man is, but I'll take a guess, like someone who constantly smokes marijuana, ja?
No. It's someone who sells marijuana for profit.
Quote:And well, this all sounds like a romantic comedy movie, I can figure why he appeared to be such a lovely man to you.
He was pretty nice to me. I never thought of him as a "lovely man", I just thought of him as someone kind of enigmatic. Wasn't really out for a serious relationship at the time. Just someone to screw and smoke weed with, honestly. That's not something I expect you, or anyone else to approve, or think fondly of, but, oh! look at that... my give a fuck is broken. I'm a liberated woman, mehmet. Woot!
Quote:Well, I think that he must have blinded you, as you probably did not do the proper background search when getting involved with married men.
Even though they say that they're divorced, I mean.
Why did he come back, I wonder.
I googled his name. LOL I doubt a background search would have told me that his wife was really off taking care of her sick grandmother, and his family was turning a blind eye to his blatant unfaithfulness to her. So, he didn't go back, he's just a repulsive lying, cheating asshole.
Quote:Now he wants the custody of the child, eh?
No. He wants control, child support money, and to not have to pay child support.
Quote:I wonder how he convinced his other family to accept a child from another mother.
Don't know. Don't care.
Quote:Well, I think that you should try to control yourself in the future better, aleia.
Control myself how?
Quote:At the end, it comes to you whether to reject or allow is advances.
I would rather snuff out a lit candle with my vagina, than allow him to touch me.
Quote:I think if there is a blame on the background of this story, it's on both sides.
Ah yes, the difference being that I am willing to admit I've made some mistakes in the past.
Quote:For the custody of the child, well, you're not married, he seems to have a wife and other children aswell...So meaning, he conceived a child while he was married and had other kids. He shouldn't get much sympathy in front of the jury. He certainly got none from me in this regard.
I'm not married, thank fucking gravity. His wife left him a few months ago on the grounds of alcoholism and abuse. They have 2 children together, both are the same ages as my oldest two children. He isn't even allowed to see them. This isn't a jury trial. He deserves no mercy.
Quote:Well, his family and relatives and friends, yes, they're important, but I'm not sure how they're going to change court proceedings.
I hope they do come again. They're a raucous bunch, and they're not going to do anything but help me by acting like the uncivilized, JerrySpringer-esque bunch of shittards that they are.
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