(March 6, 2012 at 9:38 am)kılıç_mehmet Wrote: Well, that is what family is there for. I wasn't spoiled, do not get me wrong, however we maintain very strong family ties, and no one is ever left out, and supported in terms of education and etc.
But I'm sure that he gave himself this rude awakening, right then when he challenged you for the child.
I've always been the only one to support anyone. I put both of my sisters through college, bought them cars, paid their rents, etc. I supported my mother for 2 years, financially, until she got back on her feet. I took care of my best friend/husband for the last 5 years of his life until he died in 2010, and since then, I have been taking care of his very sick partner like I promised I would. I've never gotten support from anyone, so down there, where you say I should grow up... yeah, fuck you, mehmet. I grew up a long ass time ago.
Quote:Like, okay, you had an affair with some other woman, and that woman became pregnant. Now, you went off and deserted that woman to live with herself for nine months, why come back?
He got subpoenaed back by the court, in other words, he got dragged back kicking and screaming.
Quote:I think he might be suffering from a case of manic depression or something.
He suffers from alcoholism, narcissism, and tiny prick syndrome. That much, I know.
Quote:Ah, he was your dealer, than?
Well, you picked the wrong person from the start, if you ask me. People with such dishonest and unlawful trades are generally not to be trusted in anything in any way.
He was the wrong person, yes, but for reasons having nothing to do with selling weed. It might be unfortunately unlawful to possess or sell marijuana, but it's not necessarily dishonest. For some people in this country, it's the only way they can make money, and since it's illegal it makes a black market. I have known some very honest, trustworthy pot dealers.
Quote:Well, maybe if you would have listened to the people who did not approve of your behavior, maybe you wouldn't have to go through all of this in the first place.
I'm a private person in real life. Nobody I know personally even knew he existed until I told them I was pregnant and who the father was.
Quote:Obviously, people need to listen to others from time to time. But you strike me as a somewhat lonely person, aleia. Maybe you did not have a friend to support, warn and tear you away from a person of his kind.
I wouldn't say I am lonely. I lost the person closest to me a couple years ago, but I liked him so much because he didn't meddle in my affairs. I don't have very many friends because I don't much care for people, in general. I pick a select few, and stick to them, and they are mostly people who aren't judgmental, or jealous.
Quote:Maybe you made the wrong choice in the people you wanted to get to know(although that certainly sounds more plausible to me).
I would say that I did, but I'm glad that I did because if I didn't I wouldn't have known the sunshine of my life, Lizzynoodledoodle.
Quote:Well, regarding your post, I take back that statement, as you did not look for a serious relationship, according to your own words. So why really look into who he really is?
I googled him to make sure he wasn't wanted for murder/rape, etc. It was a safety precaution.
Quote:Well, is he required to pay child support now? From what I gather, you weren't even married.
I pay him child support. If I had custody, he would have to pay me child support. It doesn't matter if we weren't married.
Quote:I don't know, growing up, maybe.
Refer to first statement.
Quote:Well, I got lost in your words, but maybe you should have done it before.
But some people only learn things by painful experience, I suppose.
What? Snuffed out a lit candle with my vagina? Who says I didn't? Furthermore, who says that wouldn't be enjoyable. I rather like pain. I've never done that, actually, but I do like having hot wax poured on my back.
Quote:Well, I think that the mistakes are on the part of your parents.
They surely did not raise you well enough to cope with the dangers of the outside world.
I raised myself, mehmet. I moved out on my own when I was 16, and haven't stopped working since. I've also been an exotic dancer for the last decade. Dangers of the outside world are something I've been familiar with for quite some time.
Quote:Well, people generally hook up with people of their likes.
I thought they say that opposites attract. I've rarely met many people I have anything in common with, and when I do, nine times out of ten they aren't from anywhere around here.
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