She's scared of losing the faith blankie. I understand. It can be a hard one to kick off, that's for sure.
I've been through this. It didn't work, and quite a bit of it had to do with differences in ideals. I'm not saying your relationship with your wife won't work out, but you need to get all of this settled before you have children, because that complicates matters like you would not believe.
Either you have to concede to let your children be brought up believing fairy tales are reality, or she has to concede that her faith is based upon lies. You really can't have it both ways. It's not like a Catholic and a Jew, who both believe different variations of the same load of shit are true, this is a fundamental difference, and kids don't need to be in the middle of it.
I've been through this. It didn't work, and quite a bit of it had to do with differences in ideals. I'm not saying your relationship with your wife won't work out, but you need to get all of this settled before you have children, because that complicates matters like you would not believe.
Either you have to concede to let your children be brought up believing fairy tales are reality, or she has to concede that her faith is based upon lies. You really can't have it both ways. It's not like a Catholic and a Jew, who both believe different variations of the same load of shit are true, this is a fundamental difference, and kids don't need to be in the middle of it.
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