RE: Gf Says No Kids = Loneliness?
July 3, 2012 at 9:33 am
(This post was last modified: July 3, 2012 at 9:33 am by KichigaiNeko.)
(June 29, 2012 at 2:44 pm)goddamnit Wrote: I told my girlfriend I don't want to have kids. She told me I'm gonna be lonely without a family as time goes on. My friend said his mom told him this too.
I guess that in high school, you don't need your own kids to not be lonely? But as you get older, that changes because friends have their own families? I miss simple truths in life, so someone please explain this to me.
Let's see .... You are being pressured to do the standard norm and have children but feel that you do not wish to do this?
And you are being blackmailed into the fear of loneliness IF you do NOT comply with the "accepted Norm"?
No you will not be lonely sans children...you will be wealthy and have a life that is totally your own. You will have friends and family who will "Dump their offspring on good old Uncle" and the best bit will be that you can fill them up with sugar and fizzy drink and give them back.
Nah ...don't fear not having kids mate, they are expensive, demanding, ungrateful, heart-wrenchingly difficult and for life!
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