Wow lots of questions. Firstly congrats on your engagement. Also I wish you the best luck coming out to his family.
As to legally being able to get married, it largely depends where you live. I would help you look those laws up if you like.
Traditionally the wife takes the last name. However you aren't a traditional couple, so throw that out the window if you want. If you want to take his last name go for it. I took my husbands. I love it.
Again good luck with your marriage.
As to legally being able to get married, it largely depends where you live. I would help you look those laws up if you like.
Traditionally the wife takes the last name. However you aren't a traditional couple, so throw that out the window if you want. If you want to take his last name go for it. I took my husbands. I love it.
Again good luck with your marriage.