If these resident theists really talk to god..

[Mister Agenda]

Well done for proving Fidel's point, but I'm sure he won't thank you for it. Do you really need me to tell you where to stick your preachy ambulance-chasing sermonising - and against the family of another member? Not cool, not in the slightest. I suggest you apologise immediately.

for what?

what was the crime here?

Remove any emotional attachments, and look at what is said. Fidel knows someone on his death bed who he has not witnessed, crying out to God for mercy.

I too was on my death bed, and I know when the darkness consumes you, one will cry out for mercy.

No. You only know that YOU cried out for mercy. You're not entitled to speak for anyone else about their experience with dying.

I further extended the idea that even if this man did not cry out infront of fidel, that does not mean he has not cried out thus giving fidel some hope of assureance that his Father was not automatically doomed to Hell.

You speculated wildly.

So again stimy tell me what I should be sorry for?

Treating someone's tragedy as an opportunity to pass on threats from your Mafia Don.

Should I be sorry that I can speak of a death bed experience??

You should be sorry you presumed to speak for the death bed experiences of others.

Should I be sorry that you think Fidel wants his dad to die an unrepentant sinner?

You should be sorry for intruding on Fidel's tragedy with anything other than support or sympathy. It's like a Hindu commenting that Fidel's dad will be reincarnated as a slug (if Hindus ever make that kind of comment). That she really believes that is what is going to happen doesn't alter the fact that it's a horribly insensitive thing to say to someone going through this.

Should I be sorry for the fact that at some point maybe fidel may have a revelation about God, become saved and then be worried about his Father?

You should be sorry for the fact that, odds are, Fidel is likely less (minisculely, but less) likely to accept such a revelation now than he was before you opened your mouth. I don't think that 'hey, that guy who was so offensive was right!' is a deathbed experience many have.

Should I be sorry for the fact that you are a quick to judge douche bag looking to peresecute someone who does not believe as you believe, and jumps at the oppertunity to make those who oppose your world views jump through hoops?

You should be sorry for the fact that you're a quick to judge douche bag who doesn't know how to behave with empathy or compassion.

Maybe help me out here to understand be a little more specific.

I hope that helped.