Pro abortion or not

[Fenix]

I'm pro abortion. I cannot take care of kids and unfortunately, even being safe I've gotten pregnant once. I guess I wasn't safe enough.
Abortion is something hard for anyone to understand if you haven't been through it. Even with my understanding of it, I was left feeling emtpy and like I killed my child. I still struggle with it from time to time as it never fully leaves the back of my mind.

With that said. People who've had an abortion (those who were okay and those who regretted it) should be allowed to decide. They actually have the experience and anyone else that is for or against it is irrelevant because they haven't experienced it themselves and have no room to talk. Don't take this as a dismissal of the much appreciated support for us. But if you haven't had your arm cut off can you really say you understand how a paraplegic feels?

The shame you can feel, the self hatred is very real and very intense. Abortions should not be taken lightly and should not be ruled by people who have no understanding of what it takes to mentally (and physically) to prepare yourself for it.